while i was logging on i did find a good pot. him and i actually had a meet planned for yesterday night, but he had to cancel it due to being stuck at the airport. i was a bit pissed considering i was already in my full face of make-up and spent a good while picking out an outfit. but honestly im glad it happened because i was sooooo exhausted from a weekend road trip i took with some girlfriends and i just didnt feel like my normal perky, conversing-self. we're rescheduling for next week and i will go into further details about him then if/when it happens.
how many of you girls consider your SD your boyfriend? in the past i have met a few men who were looking more for a real relationship with a SB rather than something strictly NSA. i would usually cut off contact with them once they shared that info just because i have been in the mind set lately where i only want a strict, typical SD/SB arrrangement. i just had a conversation though with my "open relationship real bf" and we finally had the talk ive been putting off for a while - basically it consisted of us both admitting that our ties with eachother are finally going to have to be completely cut off the end of this year since he is graduated now and i am going to remain in school for a couple more years. it was so sad to finally admit to myself and thus far ive had my cake and eaten it too (bf to say "i love you", sugar daddy, no guilt since bf and i arent "official")... but looks like im on my last piece :/ so then it got me thinking about potentially being open to the idea of considering a SD a bf. i mean what girl wouldnt want a rich bf who can take care of her?... but it just feels like it could get super complicated getting emotionally invovled with a SD... ugh advice por favor?? x3
ps- the picture has nothing to do with this post... i just thought it was cute as hell! lol
Hi Sunshine,
ReplyDeleteI think you are in a great place right now, where you aren't crossing over with an SD to be your BF. From my experience, I would not get too emotionally involved with an SD unless he continues to take care of me financially.
What if a 'gf/bf' relationship potentially damages what you have with your SD? I mean, some guys just don't want to pay an allowance to their "girlfriend". And what if you like him so much, but because he is married, he won't be able to be true to you?
You have to consider all scenarios, the light and the dark.
xxo
Sexy Sadie
http://escort-confessions.blogspot.com/
I wouldn't consider a SD to be a boyfriend - definitely not myself specifically as I have a boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteI've become quite emotionally attached to some SDs in the past, and with one of them I did everything that bf-gfs do, but still didn't consider him a boyfriend. I think it stems from the fact that they are usually much older (therefore not a BOYfriend) and not someone I can introduce to my family/friends.
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