Dinner with MrLocal went well as expected. We basically recapped a few things we discussed our first meet, and were not hesitant to discuss each of our expectations from a sugar relationship. Once again he expressed his desire to only have one SB. He is looking for more of a girlfriend in the aspect that he wants to get to know his SB on more of a personal level. I am open to this, but I was also straightforward in expressing that I am only looking for a once a month meeting with my SD since that is all my schedule allows, and also all I personally want to dedicate of my real life to being a SB. We are both fair and easy natured people, so it was easy to accept one another’s wants without having to forego our own idealities.
I find myself actually a bit physically attracted to MrLocal which is a definite plus. He told me how he has a daughter that is a few months younger than me which was a bit of a turnoff for me initially, but at this point I would take that over him being attached to a significant other. Because he isn’t I understand his want of more of a girlfriend, rather than just a SB he’s only involved with when face-to-face with her. My only concern is that he will want more of my attention than I am willing to give him when we are in between visits.
We ended dinner on the note that I will keep in touch, and once I return back to school and my schedule is more clear we will decide the next date we will meet. I told him that I am open to flying to where he lives, or wherever his business happens to bring him on the dates we can get together. I told him though I would rather him not come to my college town because it's just too much of a risk with us going out and me running into people I know... awkwarddd.
I also told him the amount I was receiving for allowance per month from my last SD, and he said that the number I mentioned is no problem for him. Of course I will up the ante once we spend more than just a 2 hour meal together -patience is a virtue when it comes to this lifestyle, BUT you have to be careful not to mix up being patient and being a pushover! My next post will come once I have seen MrLocal again. I am about to be busy with getting settled back into my city where I study, and also getting my schedule organized once school starts back up soon. Until then I will see you ladies on facebook x3
Showing posts with label Mr.Local. Show all posts
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Tuesday, January 4, 2011
NEW YEAR & NEW SD
2011! ah it is so beyond me how it has already been over a year since my very first post on here! OMG! i can absolutely say i am a much more experienced SB since my very first posts and can officially and confidently consider myself an actual full fledged sugar baby. 2010 was full of so many events for my sugar and personal life and now i say on to this brand new year!
as i was expecting, MrSingle and i have called it quits. he finally e-mailed me explaining that he felt i was not physically and sexually attracted to him, which was true. he said that he felt it would be best if we went our separate ways and i found someone younger/someone i am more truly attracted to. i e-mailed back saying thank you for finally telling me what was going on and that he is correct and that i wish him the best of luck.
so now i have a new SD! lol. what can i say, i move quick :) he is in the same state as me so i will be referring to him as MrLocal from here on out. his stats in a nut shell: divorced, fairly attractive (dark eyes and hair, average height, not fat, nice teeth, somewhat balding in the back but not noticeable from the front), has a house in his city of living as well as one in his old city of living, and also has a daughter thats 2 years younger than me (yikes! i know... a little awkward but eh what can ya do). we met on SA and after a few exchanges of messages and a phone call we planned a lunch meet in his city. i drove there and stayed with a good friend (aka. fuck buddy, hehe) that i know in the same city so kind of killed 2 birds with 1 stone you could say ;)
lunch wasnt too bad and was at a restaurant at the local mall there. he said he had to pick up a suit and then asked me if i would like to go shopping after. um -YES! i only got a pair of (fab) shoes from ALDO though because i really wanted to go see my "friend" i was staying with and i also wanted to appear less concerned with spending his money on the first meet and really didnt feel too hot with the idea of going shopping with him when we were still on new terms.
we chatted on the phone today and i am going to try to fly to meet him by the end of January. i told him i can only meet 1x per month and he said he would prefer 2x per month. sorry! -no can do i told him.. so he is fully aware of this. he wants long term but i will just be taking it month by month considering he expressed the want to see his SB twice a month. i will be starting at a $3000/month allowance and hopefully over time (if we get to this point) i can up it all the way to 4 then possibly 5 thousand. as of now i am content with the situation and will keep yall posted on eveything.
hope everyones New Years was fantastic! i am back in the city of my university and damn it feels so good to be back! talk to you all sooner than later! muahs! x3
as i was expecting, MrSingle and i have called it quits. he finally e-mailed me explaining that he felt i was not physically and sexually attracted to him, which was true. he said that he felt it would be best if we went our separate ways and i found someone younger/someone i am more truly attracted to. i e-mailed back saying thank you for finally telling me what was going on and that he is correct and that i wish him the best of luck.
so now i have a new SD! lol. what can i say, i move quick :) he is in the same state as me so i will be referring to him as MrLocal from here on out. his stats in a nut shell: divorced, fairly attractive (dark eyes and hair, average height, not fat, nice teeth, somewhat balding in the back but not noticeable from the front), has a house in his city of living as well as one in his old city of living, and also has a daughter thats 2 years younger than me (yikes! i know... a little awkward but eh what can ya do). we met on SA and after a few exchanges of messages and a phone call we planned a lunch meet in his city. i drove there and stayed with a good friend (aka. fuck buddy, hehe) that i know in the same city so kind of killed 2 birds with 1 stone you could say ;)
lunch wasnt too bad and was at a restaurant at the local mall there. he said he had to pick up a suit and then asked me if i would like to go shopping after. um -YES! i only got a pair of (fab) shoes from ALDO though because i really wanted to go see my "friend" i was staying with and i also wanted to appear less concerned with spending his money on the first meet and really didnt feel too hot with the idea of going shopping with him when we were still on new terms.
we chatted on the phone today and i am going to try to fly to meet him by the end of January. i told him i can only meet 1x per month and he said he would prefer 2x per month. sorry! -no can do i told him.. so he is fully aware of this. he wants long term but i will just be taking it month by month considering he expressed the want to see his SB twice a month. i will be starting at a $3000/month allowance and hopefully over time (if we get to this point) i can up it all the way to 4 then possibly 5 thousand. as of now i am content with the situation and will keep yall posted on eveything.
hope everyones New Years was fantastic! i am back in the city of my university and damn it feels so good to be back! talk to you all sooner than later! muahs! x3
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