My o-face got A LOT of practice this past weekend with MrSexy. We had our second meet in a city by the beach that was a few hours distance from both of us. This is the first time I ever traveled in a car to go meet with an SD. I almost feel like I can't call MrSexy an "SD" for the fact we met on AshleyMadison, and not a website specifically catered to sugar relationships. Though he is very affluent, he is not familiar with the concept of an arrangement, nor have we ever really discussed it. I'm more so his mistress he is reliving his lost youth with. For the sake of simplicity though, I will just refer to him as an SD.
I arrived Friday evening at the hotel MrSexy booked for us. It was really pretty, and quite peaceful considering it is the off-season right now for beach resorts. We ate dinner at the restaurant connected to the hotel, and it was sooo good! For appetizers we got smoked fish dip and shrimp, and for entrees we both ordered the whole red snapper (yep, with the head on), along with steamed kale leaves and a gruyere cheese popover, yum! :p Oh, and cannot forget the bottle of white wine for me, myself, and I, since MrSexy isn't a big drinker.
Right away during dinner I could tell I was going to be struggling again to maintain fluid conversation with MrSexy. He's so good looking, but can be oh-so boring sometimes! He just has not had enough life experiences to talk about I feel. He married so young and started working right away, so he has never traveled outside of the U.S. (not even a cruise!). He also never went to college, so there is a lack of commonality in that area to really converse about.
I did my best though to keep the convo raft afloat, and was super excited when we headed back to the hotel room. We didn't dadle around at all once getting there, and both of our clothes were off within minutes ;) We passed out early, and then ended up waking up again around 4 in the morning for a second round of bed wrestling. As the Black Eyed Peas would say: "And I just can't get enough!"
On Saturday we woke up early and MrSexy let me lounge in bed while he got us breakfast. He really is such a gentleman, and super sweet and kind to me. The French toast he brought back for me was AH-MAY-ZING! The weather was really overcast, so we opted to drive around to see what sites were around to entertain us. I was hoping to do a little shopping, but I didnt see any stores worth making him stop at. We ended up going to a fun museum about 30 minutes from our hotel, which took up a good amount of the day. After, we went back to the hotel for a late lunch then got our spa treatments MrSexy had reserved for us earlier. I got a 75 minute body scrub/massage and a pedicure. Aaah, bliss.
That night we ate at a restaurant MrSexy had found online. The Obamas had actually eaten at it before, so we figured it would be good. And "good" ended up being an understatement, as it was absolute perfection! Everything on the menu was so yum looking. I got prime rib for my main course, and we did crab cakes, SheCrab soup, and tuna for appetizers. MrSexy had a stiff Crown and coke, and got a little buzz from it (while I downed 4 Pomegranate martinis). He then opened up to me a bit, saying how he doesn't know why he has this tough exterior, and that he blames it on the fact he doesn't know how to take off his "boss" face, even when he isn't working. I understood what he was saying, and tried to make it a point that I am the last person he should feel like he needs to keep his guard up with. I'm there with him so we can have fun, and be our secret selves!
We decided to take dessert to-go (cheesecake and vanilla/white chocolate creme brulee!) and gave one another our own desserts in bed ;) I felt like him opening up to me somewhat was a good hump I got over, and it made me feel more confident about our future meets. He did give me some allowance money, but not as much as I was hoping for and expected. Because he is not an SD per se, we never really discussed a stipend to be given to me. I just kind of leave my purse open on the bed, and he sticks some cash in it without any discussion.
He and I are planning on meeting again in December, so I figured I will see how much he gives me then, and will more accurately be able to gauge an average amount I should expect from him. Because I do have a real SD, MrGreat, I cannot have too many complaints. As I mentioned in a previous post, MrSexy is like the (great sex, hot as hell, small extra allowance) cherry on my sugar cake. I should be seeing him again before I see MrGreat. Will post then! x3
Monday, November 21, 2011
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
BACK IN THE SUGAR BOWL
MrGreat is now pot turned my new SD! About time if I do say so myself. I seriously did not realize it would take me this long to find a replacement for MrSingle, after he flaked out on me in August when I returned back to the sugar life. No complaints though, as I know there are many girls that have been struggling for much longer to find a reliable benefactor.
MrGreat visited me for a night recently. We had dinner (nothing too great) then returned to his hotel room to do the deed. Before, he gave me my first 2 months allowance in cash. Damn, it felt good to finally have that money in my hands after going through such a fruitless sugar search since August.
I began kissing him, which he really enjoyed since "his wife doesn't kiss him anymore". I enjoyed being able to so easily please him by such a simple act of affection. He then went down on me, and it was quite good. I could tell he hadn't eaten out a woman in a long time by how into it he was, and also how long he stayed down there ;) I proceeded to return the favor to him, then I asked if he was ready to put it in....
Well, oopsy, both of us didn't bring a condom. MrGreat is a "newbie" as he calls himself, and he said that condoms didn't even cross his mind when he was packing to come see me. Of course I didn't bring them because, well... I feel like that's the man's job! Right? It was not a big deal though. He said it was fine, and he was complacent with what we had done. We just hung out and conversed for a bit until I was sleepy and went back to my place. He did ask if I wanted to stay the night, and did not argue at all when I said I preferred to sleep in my own bed.
Our plan was to have an early lunch the next day, and say our goodbyes. Well I woke up instead to numerous text messages from MrGreat asking for me to come over earlier than planned. He wanted to finish what we started the night before. I seriously contemplated pretending I was asleep until it was time for him to check out. I decided to be a good little SB though. We resolved on ordering room service for lunch, and we would do our thang finally while we waited.
The sex was good, and I got off twice. I would rather MrGreat be in a little better shape than he is, but I am so attracted to his personality, sense of humor, etc that it really doesn't bother me. I am finally starting to see how some of you SBs can look past your SDs (lack of) looks and really be able to enjoy the sex with them, even if they're not the best looking guy at the bar, haha. I actually found out that he is about 5 years younger than I thought too.
We are now in the process of planning out our meet for next month. Once again I felt totally confortable around MrGreat the entire time I was with him. I love his sarcastic, matter of fact, slightly pervy sense of humor, and his air of confidence. I do sometimes wish he would ask more questions about me, but I have found that listening is much more beneficial in the end than being the Chatty Kathy always. Plus it makes up for MrSexy's lack of words.
Speaking of, my next post will be about my meet with MrSexy, ooo lala! I cannot wait to get my hands on him again! He has been e-mailing me about what he has planned for us, and seems just as excited as me about seeing one another again. I am a bit worried that his quietness will put me in an awkward spot to keep up conversation during our 2 day meet, but I am just going to roll with the punches. I figured I can keep him occupied in bed for longer if I really can't think of anything to talk to him about, lol. Until then my loves! x3
MrGreat visited me for a night recently. We had dinner (nothing too great) then returned to his hotel room to do the deed. Before, he gave me my first 2 months allowance in cash. Damn, it felt good to finally have that money in my hands after going through such a fruitless sugar search since August.
I began kissing him, which he really enjoyed since "his wife doesn't kiss him anymore". I enjoyed being able to so easily please him by such a simple act of affection. He then went down on me, and it was quite good. I could tell he hadn't eaten out a woman in a long time by how into it he was, and also how long he stayed down there ;) I proceeded to return the favor to him, then I asked if he was ready to put it in....
Well, oopsy, both of us didn't bring a condom. MrGreat is a "newbie" as he calls himself, and he said that condoms didn't even cross his mind when he was packing to come see me. Of course I didn't bring them because, well... I feel like that's the man's job! Right? It was not a big deal though. He said it was fine, and he was complacent with what we had done. We just hung out and conversed for a bit until I was sleepy and went back to my place. He did ask if I wanted to stay the night, and did not argue at all when I said I preferred to sleep in my own bed.
Our plan was to have an early lunch the next day, and say our goodbyes. Well I woke up instead to numerous text messages from MrGreat asking for me to come over earlier than planned. He wanted to finish what we started the night before. I seriously contemplated pretending I was asleep until it was time for him to check out. I decided to be a good little SB though. We resolved on ordering room service for lunch, and we would do our thang finally while we waited.
The sex was good, and I got off twice. I would rather MrGreat be in a little better shape than he is, but I am so attracted to his personality, sense of humor, etc that it really doesn't bother me. I am finally starting to see how some of you SBs can look past your SDs (lack of) looks and really be able to enjoy the sex with them, even if they're not the best looking guy at the bar, haha. I actually found out that he is about 5 years younger than I thought too.
We are now in the process of planning out our meet for next month. Once again I felt totally confortable around MrGreat the entire time I was with him. I love his sarcastic, matter of fact, slightly pervy sense of humor, and his air of confidence. I do sometimes wish he would ask more questions about me, but I have found that listening is much more beneficial in the end than being the Chatty Kathy always. Plus it makes up for MrSexy's lack of words.
Speaking of, my next post will be about my meet with MrSexy, ooo lala! I cannot wait to get my hands on him again! He has been e-mailing me about what he has planned for us, and seems just as excited as me about seeing one another again. I am a bit worried that his quietness will put me in an awkward spot to keep up conversation during our 2 day meet, but I am just going to roll with the punches. I figured I can keep him occupied in bed for longer if I really can't think of anything to talk to him about, lol. Until then my loves! x3
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