GLITTER IN MY VEINS

Mr.Mentor approached me a few weeks ago about an upcoming trip to Vegas. Since I established he is not an SD, but more so a sugary friend (will pay for my trip expenses, dinner, new dress/heels, but not an allowance giver) I was never too keen on wasting my time to see him. I decided to play nice though after him being MIA for almost a year, and figured a free trip to Vegas isn't the worst thing in the world ;) He recently told me about the upcoming KandyLand party happening this weekend in Beverly Hills. He told me how you can apply for a "sponsored" ticket by making a profile and posing some pictures. I did it and got picked!!! Ahhh, I was on cloud-freaking-9 when I saw my "Golden Ticket" invite in my inbox :D Once it was confirmed I was chosen, Mr.Mentor booked me a room at a very famous hotel in Hollywood. He'll also be paying for all of my meals while there (mmmm, the restaurants we're going to look amazeeee).

I need to get an uber sexy outfit for the event, and figured that will be obtained when Mr.AllAround takes me lingerie shopping this week (duh, why would I pay for my own outfit myself?! haha). The KandyLand party was at the Playboy Mansion last year, and kind of disappointed it's not again this ear. I mean how cool would it be to say I, me, moi, partied at thee Playboy Mansion?! Instead though it's being held at a private mansion that is priced as being worth $85million dollars, holy shit! It's going to be a blast I'm sure, and I cannot wait to be looking hot and partying hard in Cali.

The best part about all of this is that my IRL bff will more than likely be coming too! I recently introduced her to the SB lifestyle after A LOT of careful consideration. She's a few years younger than me, and has been going through major, I'm talking, bottom of the barrel, money issues. It got to the point where I loaned her over $1000 so she could make rent and have groceries, etc. Her parents are ass holes and basically disowned her because she's "partying too much", and they "don't have enough money to support her" bull shit. It really was an internal struggle for me to see my best friend struggling so much financially, while I'm here sitting on my sugar money.

I hinted at the thought of her finding a sugar daddy, but said it in a way where it was half-joking. One of her IRL friends actually has an SD too, and my bff went out with them on his boat. Once I felt she was acclimated a bit with the lifestyle, and had a good enough head on her shoulders to handle the inevitable lows this lifestyle creates, I introduced her to Seeking Arrangement. After making a profile about a month ago she has already flown to 3 different cities, has an international trip in the works, and 2 SDs that give her a substantial amount of money. Since she now knows about my lifestyle (though I still tone down a lot of the details of my past arrangements) we are planning on doing some traveling together. Hopefully Vegas will be soon and Australia possibly too!!!!! One of her SDs bought her KandyLand ticket and is going to pay for all of her expenses too. While I'm soooo excited for our future sugar experiences together, I have been having some inner turmoil about her being an SB. More on that next post. Until then! x3

FINALLY IN A POSTING MOOD $$$

I apologize in advance for my posts being so few and far between. Damn, logging back into this account I was reminded that I have been posting here since 2009!! Absolutely insane how the time flies when you're having fun. I have taken a few breaks from the sugar life since starting my journey in January 2010, and those breaks have been life-savers. When you start feeling burnt out, or just aren't having fun with this lifestyle, then TAKE A BREAK! Some SBs worry that if they leave their profiles for a month or 2, that they'll miss out on their ultimate SD. Not true. The right guy will come when you are in the perfect mindset, which sometimes can only be achieved by taking a little down time to focus on your real life, friends, and family.

Now that I got the advice speel out of the way, on to the deets of my personal sugar life and my new, fantastic SD, Mr.AllAround! Basically forget about all of the men I have mentioned in past posts. Most are no longer involved in my life (e.g. Mr.Travel because that fucking ass hole NEVER gave me my promised allowance! And Mr.Great because he ended up being... well -not so great, murr). Recently I met a guy in south Florida who I connected with on AM. We met for dinner at an amazing restaurant on the intercoastal -such a great view! He is an entrepreneur of a booming business that I shall not get into the details of, late 40s, married (to his 4th wife, lol), full set of hair, tall, and oh so nice and generou$!! After dinner I went back to his hotel room to discuss the financial details of the arrangement. After conveying to him my monetary obligations, etc. I told him my wanted amount. His response being "That's it?". Needleless to say I was jumping for joy inside when I heard those words twitter through my ears :) He ended up upping my initial asked for amount by 2k!

The next day we went to the mall for that favorite "S" word us sugars love: SHOPPING! Kind of disappointed for the fact I was about to get my very first pair of famous, red-soled, Christian Loubitons. It didn't happen though because by that point Mr. AllAround's credit card was at its daily limit of 20k due to him ordering things needed for his business, and after he spent over $700 on a beautiful LBD for me. I told him to return the dress (I mean $700 for a fucking dress? Puh-leeease) so I could go to another store to get a cheaper dress, and then still have money for some new heels and sunglasses which was at the top of my shopping wish list. I absolutely LOVEEE the new dress, and now have a great pair of sunglasses too.

Mr.AllAround will be flying to my city for a few nights this week. He has already expressed his desire to take me lingerie shopping, which also means I'm going to ask for some other items I have been wanting (new MAC make-up, purse, bikinis). Will write another post in regards to my IRL best friend now being an SB, and my trip this weekend to Los Angeles for the 7th annual KandyLand party. I applied for a sponsored/free ticket and got chosen, and Mr. Mentor, the very first pot I ever flew out to meet, is paying for all of my travel expenses to get there and hotel. See you there (my next post, not LA lol)! x3