LOTS OF POT DATES

i have been so busy lately omg! mostly with training for work and meeting pot SDs.

MR.ROCKER: called me back after i said in the last post i had emailed him and hadnt heard back so i was thinking he went MIA. apparently my email went to his 'spam' folder so he called me yesterday hoping to get together again soon. im starting to focus on finding a SD closer and more local and Mr.Rocker lives in my hometown which i am not living at right now.

MR.DOLITTLE:: had our first meet sat night. took me to a nice restaurant -got scallops, salad, and yummy chocolate dessert. he's a senior VP of a bank, has a boat, jeep, BMW, and motorcycle so might be fun -he seems a little on the soft side as in i could use him (not looking to do that tho! i really respect the whole MUTUAL aspect of these arrangements).

LATIN.LOVER: he cooked me a freaking 5-course dinner sun night and is taking me to see one of my fave theater shows tomorrow night :) he tried to kiss me when i left and i turned my head and said "cheek only" hehe. from what he has told me, he has lived in L.A., NYC, and europe before (speaks italian and spanish -so sexy with his deep ass voice) and was telling me about his past rendezvous's so im trying to play a bit hard to get -since im sure he's used to getting the snatch right away lol. side note on him tho: he was freaking engaged in the past and his fiance (AND unborn child) died in the 9-11 attacks! he also has a lot of past drama with health and TONS of stories about what has happened to him in the past and its a little much -im very NONbaggage/simple-life and i feel like he has a lot of past drama/crazy shit...it makes me feel like we are 2 COMPLETELY diff people so makes me wonder how far this will go. do any of u girls ever have that problem feeling like a SD is so much more experienced than u with life events that its almost intimidating??

THE.RUSSIAN: my new FAVORITE!! :D him and i met for an early dinner today. i felt at ease right away and he's so cute and easy-going and has the sexiest russian accent. reason why he's my 'favorite': he gave me an envelope with $200 in it and this was our first meet. that has never happened yet to me so i was very pleased that he seems to be experienced with what this whole SD/SB thing is really about -the $$$$$ (about damn time!). he emailed me saying he was impressed by my intellect, beauty, etc and wants to meet possibly in a more 'private' setting and i emailed him back asking exactly what he means (tho i have a pretty good idea..lol). he is married so i guess he wants something discreet and im hoping to make him a regular SD that could finally be the outlet to that allowance ive been wanting!

"patience is a virtue"... hope its true! off to bed . 630am work shift tomorrow -ugh. nighty-night x3

LIVIN' LA VIDA LOCA

well i am all settled in *insert city i am doing internship at* finally. i already hate the job they have me doing tho and have already day dreamed about convincing a pot SD to buy me an apartment and give me an exceptional allowance just so i can stay in this city but not have to work... keep dreaming -i know lol. plus i always know u must have a back-up job for income to avoid ever having to rely on a SD to pay bills bc theyre wayyy too UNreliable. okay so now on to updates, updates, updates!

-OLD SD's (aka. SDs Already Mentioned in Past Posts)-
MR.MENTOR: i still havent went to the gyno yet to get checked after having unprotected sex with him (*tisktisk*) but did ask him about when he got tested last and he said Oct and he was clean, etc. i took meds for a yeast infection and ever since havent had issues but still plan on getting checked. we text every day and he has drunk-texted me twice basically saying he "adores" me and wants me to come back and visit. we'll see..

LATINLOVER: my new addiction. had our first date on thursday and totally hit it off -he has this amazing, deep, sexy voice too. he called me like 5min after i left our lunch date and said he wanted to cook me dinner. i was like um YES u can cook me a 5 course dinner, plus some amazing chocolate dessert. he just texted me to confirm im still coming; im going to his place tomorrow night for this yummy dinner/dessert. like i said in my first post about him, he has told me up-front he's looking for someone quite sexual BUT i plan on not sleeping with him until our next date (if all goes well tmrw night that is). he said he wants to bring me to go see the phantom of the opera this week after i mentioned to him that i love the theater at lunch -sweetness.

MR.ROCKER: he lives in my hometown that i just left. i sent him an email like 3 days ago just to keep our flame ignited, telling him to call me sometime, but no call or response since, so whatever -maybe i'll see him again when i go back home.


-NEW SD's (Never Mentioned Before)-
MR. DOLITTLE: i have a date with him tonight. i call him 'dolittle' bc he's like obsessed with his dog, lol. whatever im a huge animal-person myself. i talked to him over the phone telling him we needed to re-schedule for tonight and his voice is so freakin' high (not like gay sounding just def not manly). i almost wanted to bail out on seeing him altogether after meeting LatinLover, but figured if at the least i'll get a free dinner out of our meet haha.

THE.RUSSIAN: from europe, sexy accent, married, "36 (so he says)". thats really it for now -trying to make a dinner date with him for this week.


PS- the ambassador i mentioned in a few posts back is being postponed. he's really old and filthy rich so i know i should be putting more effort towards meeting him, but he lives a bit far and im still not ready to date a man old enough to be my grandfather!

x3

PARTY LIKE ITS 1989

or more like party with people who were MY age in 1989 haha. last night Mr.Rocker took me to a party he was invited to -i was by far the best looking girl there... which is easy i guess when youre the youngest person there too.

i was originally suppose to go over to his house at noon so we could lay out at the nudist resort by his house (with a bikini) then go to the mall to get me my dress i wanted from Bebe. unfortunately when i woke up the weather was awful: rainy and overcast, and i was so stuffy feeling. my ex was sick when i visited him at school and of course he passed his sniffles on to me -fun shit. i feel so gross right now having a cold from one guy and (hopefully only) a yeast infection from another -no judgement please.

i called Mr.Rocker to tell him i wasnt going to be over as early as we had planned since we couldnt tan anymore and he said he understood but still said we could go get my outfit. i accepted of course but after laying down on the couch i just felt too tired/sick to go shopping then go to a party, so i texted him letting him know i was just going to wear something i already owned and meet him at his house dressed already for the party to give me ample time to rest before.

the party was pretty fun -it was 9bucks for like a rum and coke. no worries tho when ur in the company of a loaded SD ;) i kept telling Mr.Rocker not to kiss me bc i was sick but of course once the drinks starting settling in i got flirty and we were making out and dancing on eachother. when we left i was so tired and looked at his BMW's clock and realized it wasnt even 1a.m. yet -i guess when u party with the old u get tired like them too lol. i opted to sleep in his guest room due to my down-there issues and i havent gotten enough from him yet to feel the need to have to sleep with him. when i left in the morning i told him to keep in touch... he said he would visit me in the city im doing my internship in "if gets an invite that is" from me... we'll see -depends on how well my sugar hunting goes in my new city.

i leave tomorrow morning for my internship so i may be MIA for a bit. once i have any updates i'll be sure to post. i have a good feeling about this guy whos an ambassador. later loves x3

QUICKIE

... a quickie update that is lol. *WARNING: T.M.I. IN THIS PARAGRAPH* so im pretty sure i got a yeast infection from having sex with Mr.Mentor. at least im praying thats all it is -i feel so dumb for not using protection (im on birth control though). i might bring it up to him that i feel uncomfortable with it and ask if he's clean and been tested... a little late on my part. i also sent him a bday card through the mail that im hoping he gets to keep him buttered up since my visit (might as well keep him around for potential company trips he's invited me on in case im ever bored lol).

MR. ROCKER: i saw him this past monday for a few hours before i left to visit school for 3 days before i begin my new job this upcoming week. he's taking me to his friends private party tomorrow night at an upscale venue and i asked him via text to take me to get a super cute dress from Bebe for the occasion. he agreed so hopefully all follows through and i have a cute new dress to add to my wardrobe post-party. also, im pretty sure he's 8 years older than what it says on his profile. hmm... should i bring this up or just let it be?- he still looks great for his age!

LATIN LOVER: he's super good looking this one. we finally traded #s tonight to set up a date to meet up hopefully this coming week once i settle in to the city im doing my internship in. he's also an AMAZING cook (he sent me pics of his dishes). also, my gut (and he himself) tells me he is an amazing fuck so i would be interested to put this to the test [EDIT: the one time my gut was wrong..lol]. im hoping to try some of his cooking (and his fucking) soon hehe.

well i said this would be a quickie so that's it. stay safe sweets x3

MR.MENTOR TRIP PART II

CONTINUED:
so my bra and thong eventually come off and Mr.Mentor goes to town down there: it was INCREDIBLE! i cant believe how much more pleasure u can get from a man with more experience. We didn’t have sex though.

The next morning I was so freakin hung over OMG! -Worse idea ever to drink so much the first night. He went down on me again and this time we went all the way and he got off too. I felt kind of weird though after bc im just not the type to fuck someone so quickly and I was also kind of mad at myself for getting naked the first night I was there. I also am not attracted to Mr.Mentor’s body-type either. Though he is tall and looks amazing when he has his suit/clothes on… off its just bleh. He has a bit of a belly that he easily carries off bc of his height but I have always been quite picky about bellies, maybe because i'm so damn skinny myself? Its so weird bc when him and I would be talking in his car or while we were eating I would get horny bc of how well he carries himself (professionally, etc) –but when it came down to being naked with him I just felt like I wanted to hurry up and get it over with and couldn’t enjoy it...he did get me off almost 10 times though thanks to his amazing eating skills haha.
So anyways –he took me out to a major city near his state for the day and I felt nauseous and so headachy from the night before that lasted until late afternoon -ugh. He took me bowling which ended up being fun and helped ease any leftover nerves and hungover feelings I still had. That night his same friends from the previous night came over so we could all go out to the same bar again. When we got there though I couldn’t get in this time! Mr.Mentor’s connection came out and told us that somehow people had found out I wasn’t 21 and there was no way he could let me in. WTF! I live hundreds of miles away how could anyone find that shit out?! It was ridiculous and I was pissed but being older and mature, Mr.Mentor and his friends played it cool and we all just went back to his place and hung out there. i was dressed in the cutest outfit too of a black off the shoulders top, paired with dark skinny jeans, and my black, knee high boots. Hate when youre all dressed up with nowhere to go –something I know u other SBs have undergone when being stood up by flakey SDs.
My last day there Mr.Mentor and I just slept in, got lunch, and went to an arcade (I prefer going to a casual, fun place over an outlandishly fancy, high-strung dinner –less pressure and nerves for me). He handed me folded up 100s before I left to pay for my ticket and I wasn’t sure how much extra he put and was expecting there not to be too much really… though images of me opening up a white envelope with ten 100’s in it danced in my head a few times. On the way to the airport he was telling me of company trips he had coming up, one in particular that he wanted to bring me if I could get a fake ID in order to go out at night. When he dropped me off at the airport we agreed to keep in touch and since Ive been back he has been texting me and we’ve IMed some.

There ended up being $500 all together that he gave me. $300 went towards my ticket though so I only got $200 on top… even less than that though after i paid for parking at the airport and included gas expenses. Im not surprised really –Mr.Mentor paid for all my expenses for the weekend and is such a gentlemen but I think he is headed more in the direction of a longer-term, real BF/GF relationship. I fig this out after he told me that the last relationship he had with a girl from a SD site lasted almost a year -she was super gorgeous too. So I feel like ‘spoiling’ to him consists of paying for dates, taking an SB on trips, and giving her great head (lmao). After thinking about it all and writing this post ive realized that Mr.Mentor is just not what im looking for. I want someone who is more LOCAL, has much more money to spend (as in gives me an allowance), and is already married or def not looking for a gf figure. I know that if I don’t figure out exactly what I want from these arrangements im never going to be satisfied. Until next time x3

PS- had my 2nd date with Mr.Rocker today. Had lots of fun… I’ll talk about that more in my next post.

MR.MENTOR TRIP PART I

i got back from my trip with Mr.Mentor about 2 hours ago. it was nice to say the least. i'll just start from the git-go.:

it was a 2hour flight to the airport he had me fly into. i would have been more nervous during the flight but there was an extremely, gay guy 1yr younger than me who striked up a convo with me that lasted the entire flight. we talked a bit about older men and i told him how the guy i was flying in to see was in his 30's and his response was "you go girl!" lol. so anyways i texted Mr.Mentor when my plane landed and he texted back saying he was waiting outside where baggage claim is. i touched up my makeup in the airport's bathroom and at first couldnt figure out where the hell he was waiting. i started becoming more nervous as it hit me that i was really in a whole other state about to meet a man i had never seen before. we finally found each other and he was waiting for me still dressed in his business suit from work, standing next to his BMW, coupe, convertible (yummy haha). he's super tall, like me, and he gave me a hug when i approached.
we drove an hour back to his city and striked up casual conversation during the drive... there were some quiet moments so i was feeling awkward at first but I don’t think he noticed. we got a quick bite to eat then got to his house. he has a ton of bedrooms in his home and he carried my bag automatically to his room (i thought that was kind of presumptuous on his part) and he then gave me a tour of the house. his basement is like half movie theater, half full-fledged bar. to ease my nerves he made us drinks and we played Wii (lmao). i was sucking my drink down like water and eventually had 2 more. feeling more than buzzed i said i wanted to take a nap before we went out that night.. we laid on the bed and he made out with me some then went to pick up dinner from this amazing Greek place while i took a shower (his shower had like 6 shower heads/massage jets.. i was in heaven lol).
some of Mr.Mentor's friends came over and i was still getting ready long after their arrival -i was so nervous!... and still buzzed haha..and trying to fig out if i wanted to wear my new jessica simpson hair piece (opted not to as to avoid an embarrassing extension slip mishap). Mr.Mentor came up to check on my status and i said i was ready, just nervous. he gave me a quick kiss and said there was no reason to be.
After being introduced to his friends (they were super nice by the way) I drank a few more red bulls and vodka and was sooooo fucking drunk by the time we headed out to the bar we were going to for the night! Omg! I think it was my nerves and the fact I was sucking the (strong) drinks down like it was water and I was a fucking desert victim or something! i was able to get into the bar because Mr.Mentor knew a few people working there (i'm underage still) so we were able to walk right in with no hassle. Needless to say as the night progressed I became even MORE trashed and Mr.Mentor even cut me off and started handing me glasses of ice water to flush some of the alcohol out of my system. I eventually refused the water and said I wanted another REAL drink and by this time was dancing (or more like flailing) around on the dance floor and ended up spilling more than half the drink on my lavendar purple Express button up… which was probably the best thing that could have happened at this point to keep me from doing any more damage lol.
Luckily the bar closed shortly afterwards, so we left finally.. At this point all I recall is shoving some food down my throat and just being, well –drunk as hell. After Mr.Mentors friends called it a night and left, we went up to his room to ‘go to sleep’. Well, due to my intoxication level I just stripped down to my thong and bra and started making out with Mr.Mentor without him even having to say anything, and of course he wasnt complaining and was quite drunk himself. So we were making out and as things progressed…since I was completely wasted the details are fuzzy of what happened next… well actually i’ll save all that for PART II. If I don’t break this trip up it will just be way too long of a post ;) x3

MY FIRST SD DATE

i have officially completed my first date with a SD, Mr.Rocker. what was suppose to be just a lunch date turned into a lunch AND eventually dinner date lasting over 7 hours haha. since it was lunch i tried to stay casual and cute wearing tight fitting, light-blue jeans tucked into knee-high black boots, paired with a tight black cami with a long-sleeved, cover-up, a black Guess belt with a diamond studded "G" in the front, a long accessorized silver necklace, a cream colored, leather jacket, and my hair down and straight (with some extra extensions in to give it volume ;) -im addicted lol). it turned out really cute actually bc he was wearing that rocker-type of outfit (dark Affliction shirt, leather wrist-wrap, faded jeans) so we complimented eachother really well i thought.

i tried so hard to be early to make a good first impression but ended up being 5min late (wtf is with us girls and being late!? lol). it was okay tho bc he was just getting out of his car when i pulled in. lunch conversation mostly consisted of him talking about the bitchy ex gf's he had met through the site and how he was ready for a nice, real, good girl. i was basically listening and taking mental notes of what were his turn-on's and off's just so i could be that much more attractive to him.

we went to his house after since i felt comfortable enough by the end of lunch. i followed him in his black mercedes telling myself to look up the price of it when i got home lol (by the way it starts at $85,000!!).. and omg ladies -his house was BEAUTIFUL. it was waterfront with tons of big, open windows to see out and lots of funky art -very modern and fresh and classy.
he offered me a beer which i took (only drank 1 though!). After a house tour we went to this spa resort by his home -a place that a lot of familiar celebs have gone to - with the twist being its clothing optional! lmao. so i saw lots of (old! ew) dick... just not his i swear haha. we only walked around and laid out by the pool in our clothes and just talked. we got dinner at a casual mom and pop's place and when i left finally left at 7ish we hugged and he told me he wanted to get together again mon or tues when im back in town (i told him im going to school to visit friends before my new job starts this weekend, but really yall know im going to see Mr.Mentor).

so the date was definitely a success. my only strike on him was that he did not offer to give me gas money when i drove quite a distance to come see him... im going to mention it to him when we hang out again though and just say i cant afford to be driving so far to see him when i dont have lots of cash to spare. also i felt weird asking him for an allowance bc it just felt well -AWKWARD...mostly due to the fact i was attracted to him in all ways and almost felt rude asking... he even brought it up first asking me "what do u want from this?" and i just fumbled over my words and was saying i wanted a stable, mature man to take care of me? i dont even remember really -i just know i didnt talk cold, hard money. how do u ladies deal with this dilemma when u truly like a SD? -maybe i'll feel comfortable over time? Overall though I was very pleased with the day.

tomorrow morning i leave to go meet Mr.Mentor and will be staying until sunday night. wish me luck ladies! ps- i feel VERY comfortable flying to meet this guy. i have ALL his info, and he even gave me approval to give my best friend his phone # (shes the only one who knows about this trip) in case she cant get in touch with me. thought that was kinda sweet. x3

BAIT, LINE, AND HOOK

well ladies im finally getting some big, SD fish to take my bait. time to name off some men and let yall in on the 411.

tomorrow i have my first date! we'll call him Mr.Rocker because he plays in a band on the side of his career (i forget exactly what he does). his worth is "over a $1,000,000" according to the site i met him on so thats good, PLUS he's very my type (dark hair and eyes, rugged, confident, and only 41). i actually have talked to him before, earlier in '09 when i first signed up for an SD site, like i mentioned was the case with another SD in my last post. well he remembered me and messaged me again, we traded #s again, talked today, and set up a date to finally meet for lunch tomorrow. afterwards he said we can see his house and i can meet his dog, and smoke some weed.. lol -might have to pass on the last thing.

next is an SD i talked about in my last post, the one who only comes to florida 4x a year and who said we talked before over one of the SD sites (and i said i couldnt remember him haha). im going to call him Mr.Mentor bc he is always telling me how im "too innocent" to be on these SD sites and too nice and will get taken advatage of (blabla yeayeayea), pretty much giving me advice. well he invited me to fly up north to come stay with him this weekend and i accepted. he made me buy the ticket with my card though bc he said he's been screwed over too many times and wasted too much money with flakey women. so i was like whatever, plus it gives me more of a push to not chicken out and just do it! –FYI he IS paying me back when I get there and I told him I’ll also need compensation for leaving my car at the airport and checking in my suitcase. so im leaving this friday morning and coming back sunday night. its suppose to be snowing friday! and the highs are in the low 30's there! um yea def not used to that so still trying to figure out what i own thats warm enough to pack.

thats about it for now. theres still the one SD i mentioned in my last post who's very open about what he expects sexually, who im going to now refer to as LatinLover. i'll talk more about him in my next post where i'll let yall know how my lunch date with Mr.Rocker goes.

toodles x3

THE TIME HAS COME

well sugies i am finally getting into the game! my new years was great -i spent it with my bf in his hometown. we went out on his friends AMAZING, huge yacht and went to a nice party to celebrate the coming of 2010. so funny bc on the drive there somehow the convo came up that if he was a girl "he would find an old guy and just milk him." -i shook my head thinking "thats just what im about to do my dear." haha. according to fb him and i are still "in a relationship" but we have both pretty much agreed we're taking a break for the next couple of months due to me having a temporary job in another city and taking this upcoming semester off from school. the place i will be doing my sugar hunting is the city the job is in! its a mutual, mature "break-up" (not sure what it is right now) and i hope in my heart that eventually we will end up back together -i just cant do the long distance thing and i also have too much of a conscience to have a bf AND an SD on the side.. and my sweet tooth is aching bad! but enough about my personal stuff lets talk about the sugar!:

as of now i am only using SD4Me to find pots. i will more than likely end up getting an account on Seeking Arrangement but i dont want to be too overwhelmed because i have been letting my inbox build up some, with what appears to be, good pots -and now have finally messaged them all back to see what takes off.

the 2 really worth mentioning right now is a guy who is a freak in the sheets (he's very up front about what he expects from a SB sexually so far) but is good-looking, in his early 30's, and lives in the city i'll be interning in. he's very "you must prove your worthiness of being spoiled" though so kind of annoying, but i was reading D.D.'s latest post about Mr. Chemistry and having an SD for good sex while having another for monetary stuff, so it could work to my advantage i think. the other pot i actually talked to a while ago (like Aug) when i was just merely skimming the whole SD waters, and he messaged me again recently, remembering me from back then (i dont remember him tho lol), wanting to see if we could re-connect and meet finally. only thing is he only comes to my state 4x outta the year so kind of limits what i can get from him/type of relationship we can have.
i'll give them their incognito/blog names when anything worthwhile happens. im just getting started and trying to keep it kinda short for now. until next time! x3