Finally I am getting around to writing a post about my double sugar date trip to Key West with MrGreat! I guess I have not been as excited to write about it considering he called it quits shortly after returning back home. The trip was still fabulous though!
I arrived in Miami and met up with MrGreat at the airport. He rented a nice little convertible for us to drive the hour and a half to the resort we were staying at, which was actually picked out by the SB meeting us there. Conversation flowed easily between us, and I immediately felt comfortable around him once again. Upon arriving, we both booked spa sessions. Of course I was eyeing the most expensive package available (facial, body scrub and wrap, and massage being almost 400 bucks), but was hesitant to look gluttonous the very first day we arrived. He ended up being the one who suggested it though!
The hotel room was fabulous, with a bathtub out on the balcony overlooking the beautiful waterfront view. We spent the following hours being pampered and scrubbed and rubbed, then got ready for dinner so I could finally meet Sam, the SB accompanying MrGreat's client/friend, Tony, on the trip!
We ate dinner at the restaurant attached to the resort. Sam and Tony were waiting for MrGreat and me downstairs before, and it was so nice to finally meet both of them! Sam was so sweet and bought me lots of sexy goodies as a thank you present for inviting her on the trip. MrGreat bought Tony a nice bottle of wine which we popped open to drink along with dinner. The food was delish, but you could tell all of us were a bit jet lagged and tired from the traveling we had all done. We called it an early night, and MrGreat went back to the room to enjoy a little fun, which I wore my new bra and panties from Sam for ;)
The following day, Sam and I laid out by the beach so MrGreat and Tony could take care of work related business. I needed a new pair of sunglasses (which I intentionally put off buying until the trip so I could have MrGreat foot the bill for them), and asked MrGreat if I could go to the resort's store to buy a pair. Of course he said yes, so I opted for a pair of Maui Jims that were almost $300 -so cute! At this point though, things began to get a bit weird with Sam and Tony. He told her later that day that rather than sticking to the original plan of them staying until Tuesday, he decided he wanted to leave Sunday for whatever reasoning. Of course this got Sam a bit worried that she was not satisfying Tony enough, and took it personally... which any girl would! I tried to not let either of us fret about it too much, and continued the day with another massage, facial, and pampering.
MrGreat had to leave that day to make it to a Christmas party he had to attend in the evening back home, but I decided to stay one more night and would have our room to myself, and of course access to charge anything I wanted to his resort account :) I decided to spend the rest of the day getting a mani and pedi, and doing a bit of shopping ("bit" being an understatement). I ended up spending over $1900 on clothes!.. hey, cashmere is expensive! I got a lot of beautiful pieces, my fave being a $300 pair of cashmere sweat pants, oo lala. My stomach sort of dropped though when the lady ringing up my total told me how much I had spent. I just felt a bit guilty about spending so much money when MrGreat entrusted me with so much independence and access to his account. I decided the best thing for me to do was to e-mail him about how much I had spent, and tell him I would return some of the things if it was too much. He called me when he had landed back home and had read my e-mail, and essentially laughed about it and said to consider it an early Xmas present from him, woohoo!
After my oh so eventful day of relaxation and luxury, I decided to pop open a bottle of undrunk champagne that had been delivered to the room when MrGreat and I had arrived the first day (which had been accompanied by chocolate covered strawberries, aw) and draw a bubble bath in the balcony tub. After getting a nice little buzz and soaking for a good hour, I received a text from Sam asking if she could come to my room because Tony was already asleep. I said 'of course' and awaited her arrival as I finished my lovely 3 course room service dinner x3
*TO BE CONTINUED*
Friday, December 30, 2011
Monday, November 21, 2011
"O" FACE
My o-face got A LOT of practice this past weekend with MrSexy. We had our second meet in a city by the beach that was a few hours distance from both of us. This is the first time I ever traveled in a car to go meet with an SD. I almost feel like I can't call MrSexy an "SD" for the fact we met on AshleyMadison, and not a website specifically catered to sugar relationships. Though he is very affluent, he is not familiar with the concept of an arrangement, nor have we ever really discussed it. I'm more so his mistress he is reliving his lost youth with. For the sake of simplicity though, I will just refer to him as an SD.
I arrived Friday evening at the hotel MrSexy booked for us. It was really pretty, and quite peaceful considering it is the off-season right now for beach resorts. We ate dinner at the restaurant connected to the hotel, and it was sooo good! For appetizers we got smoked fish dip and shrimp, and for entrees we both ordered the whole red snapper (yep, with the head on), along with steamed kale leaves and a gruyere cheese popover, yum! :p Oh, and cannot forget the bottle of white wine for me, myself, and I, since MrSexy isn't a big drinker.
Right away during dinner I could tell I was going to be struggling again to maintain fluid conversation with MrSexy. He's so good looking, but can be oh-so boring sometimes! He just has not had enough life experiences to talk about I feel. He married so young and started working right away, so he has never traveled outside of the U.S. (not even a cruise!). He also never went to college, so there is a lack of commonality in that area to really converse about.
I did my best though to keep the convo raft afloat, and was super excited when we headed back to the hotel room. We didn't dadle around at all once getting there, and both of our clothes were off within minutes ;) We passed out early, and then ended up waking up again around 4 in the morning for a second round of bed wrestling. As the Black Eyed Peas would say: "And I just can't get enough!"
On Saturday we woke up early and MrSexy let me lounge in bed while he got us breakfast. He really is such a gentleman, and super sweet and kind to me. The French toast he brought back for me was AH-MAY-ZING! The weather was really overcast, so we opted to drive around to see what sites were around to entertain us. I was hoping to do a little shopping, but I didnt see any stores worth making him stop at. We ended up going to a fun museum about 30 minutes from our hotel, which took up a good amount of the day. After, we went back to the hotel for a late lunch then got our spa treatments MrSexy had reserved for us earlier. I got a 75 minute body scrub/massage and a pedicure. Aaah, bliss.
That night we ate at a restaurant MrSexy had found online. The Obamas had actually eaten at it before, so we figured it would be good. And "good" ended up being an understatement, as it was absolute perfection! Everything on the menu was so yum looking. I got prime rib for my main course, and we did crab cakes, SheCrab soup, and tuna for appetizers. MrSexy had a stiff Crown and coke, and got a little buzz from it (while I downed 4 Pomegranate martinis). He then opened up to me a bit, saying how he doesn't know why he has this tough exterior, and that he blames it on the fact he doesn't know how to take off his "boss" face, even when he isn't working. I understood what he was saying, and tried to make it a point that I am the last person he should feel like he needs to keep his guard up with. I'm there with him so we can have fun, and be our secret selves!
We decided to take dessert to-go (cheesecake and vanilla/white chocolate creme brulee!) and gave one another our own desserts in bed ;) I felt like him opening up to me somewhat was a good hump I got over, and it made me feel more confident about our future meets. He did give me some allowance money, but not as much as I was hoping for and expected. Because he is not an SD per se, we never really discussed a stipend to be given to me. I just kind of leave my purse open on the bed, and he sticks some cash in it without any discussion.
He and I are planning on meeting again in December, so I figured I will see how much he gives me then, and will more accurately be able to gauge an average amount I should expect from him. Because I do have a real SD, MrGreat, I cannot have too many complaints. As I mentioned in a previous post, MrSexy is like the (great sex, hot as hell, small extra allowance) cherry on my sugar cake. I should be seeing him again before I see MrGreat. Will post then! x3
I arrived Friday evening at the hotel MrSexy booked for us. It was really pretty, and quite peaceful considering it is the off-season right now for beach resorts. We ate dinner at the restaurant connected to the hotel, and it was sooo good! For appetizers we got smoked fish dip and shrimp, and for entrees we both ordered the whole red snapper (yep, with the head on), along with steamed kale leaves and a gruyere cheese popover, yum! :p Oh, and cannot forget the bottle of white wine for me, myself, and I, since MrSexy isn't a big drinker.
Right away during dinner I could tell I was going to be struggling again to maintain fluid conversation with MrSexy. He's so good looking, but can be oh-so boring sometimes! He just has not had enough life experiences to talk about I feel. He married so young and started working right away, so he has never traveled outside of the U.S. (not even a cruise!). He also never went to college, so there is a lack of commonality in that area to really converse about.
I did my best though to keep the convo raft afloat, and was super excited when we headed back to the hotel room. We didn't dadle around at all once getting there, and both of our clothes were off within minutes ;) We passed out early, and then ended up waking up again around 4 in the morning for a second round of bed wrestling. As the Black Eyed Peas would say: "And I just can't get enough!"
On Saturday we woke up early and MrSexy let me lounge in bed while he got us breakfast. He really is such a gentleman, and super sweet and kind to me. The French toast he brought back for me was AH-MAY-ZING! The weather was really overcast, so we opted to drive around to see what sites were around to entertain us. I was hoping to do a little shopping, but I didnt see any stores worth making him stop at. We ended up going to a fun museum about 30 minutes from our hotel, which took up a good amount of the day. After, we went back to the hotel for a late lunch then got our spa treatments MrSexy had reserved for us earlier. I got a 75 minute body scrub/massage and a pedicure. Aaah, bliss.
That night we ate at a restaurant MrSexy had found online. The Obamas had actually eaten at it before, so we figured it would be good. And "good" ended up being an understatement, as it was absolute perfection! Everything on the menu was so yum looking. I got prime rib for my main course, and we did crab cakes, SheCrab soup, and tuna for appetizers. MrSexy had a stiff Crown and coke, and got a little buzz from it (while I downed 4 Pomegranate martinis). He then opened up to me a bit, saying how he doesn't know why he has this tough exterior, and that he blames it on the fact he doesn't know how to take off his "boss" face, even when he isn't working. I understood what he was saying, and tried to make it a point that I am the last person he should feel like he needs to keep his guard up with. I'm there with him so we can have fun, and be our secret selves!
We decided to take dessert to-go (cheesecake and vanilla/white chocolate creme brulee!) and gave one another our own desserts in bed ;) I felt like him opening up to me somewhat was a good hump I got over, and it made me feel more confident about our future meets. He did give me some allowance money, but not as much as I was hoping for and expected. Because he is not an SD per se, we never really discussed a stipend to be given to me. I just kind of leave my purse open on the bed, and he sticks some cash in it without any discussion.
He and I are planning on meeting again in December, so I figured I will see how much he gives me then, and will more accurately be able to gauge an average amount I should expect from him. Because I do have a real SD, MrGreat, I cannot have too many complaints. As I mentioned in a previous post, MrSexy is like the (great sex, hot as hell, small extra allowance) cherry on my sugar cake. I should be seeing him again before I see MrGreat. Will post then! x3
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
BACK IN THE SUGAR BOWL
MrGreat is now pot turned my new SD! About time if I do say so myself. I seriously did not realize it would take me this long to find a replacement for MrSingle, after he flaked out on me in August when I returned back to the sugar life. No complaints though, as I know there are many girls that have been struggling for much longer to find a reliable benefactor.
MrGreat visited me for a night recently. We had dinner (nothing too great) then returned to his hotel room to do the deed. Before, he gave me my first 2 months allowance in cash. Damn, it felt good to finally have that money in my hands after going through such a fruitless sugar search since August.
I began kissing him, which he really enjoyed since "his wife doesn't kiss him anymore". I enjoyed being able to so easily please him by such a simple act of affection. He then went down on me, and it was quite good. I could tell he hadn't eaten out a woman in a long time by how into it he was, and also how long he stayed down there ;) I proceeded to return the favor to him, then I asked if he was ready to put it in....
Well, oopsy, both of us didn't bring a condom. MrGreat is a "newbie" as he calls himself, and he said that condoms didn't even cross his mind when he was packing to come see me. Of course I didn't bring them because, well... I feel like that's the man's job! Right? It was not a big deal though. He said it was fine, and he was complacent with what we had done. We just hung out and conversed for a bit until I was sleepy and went back to my place. He did ask if I wanted to stay the night, and did not argue at all when I said I preferred to sleep in my own bed.
Our plan was to have an early lunch the next day, and say our goodbyes. Well I woke up instead to numerous text messages from MrGreat asking for me to come over earlier than planned. He wanted to finish what we started the night before. I seriously contemplated pretending I was asleep until it was time for him to check out. I decided to be a good little SB though. We resolved on ordering room service for lunch, and we would do our thang finally while we waited.
The sex was good, and I got off twice. I would rather MrGreat be in a little better shape than he is, but I am so attracted to his personality, sense of humor, etc that it really doesn't bother me. I am finally starting to see how some of you SBs can look past your SDs (lack of) looks and really be able to enjoy the sex with them, even if they're not the best looking guy at the bar, haha. I actually found out that he is about 5 years younger than I thought too.
We are now in the process of planning out our meet for next month. Once again I felt totally confortable around MrGreat the entire time I was with him. I love his sarcastic, matter of fact, slightly pervy sense of humor, and his air of confidence. I do sometimes wish he would ask more questions about me, but I have found that listening is much more beneficial in the end than being the Chatty Kathy always. Plus it makes up for MrSexy's lack of words.
Speaking of, my next post will be about my meet with MrSexy, ooo lala! I cannot wait to get my hands on him again! He has been e-mailing me about what he has planned for us, and seems just as excited as me about seeing one another again. I am a bit worried that his quietness will put me in an awkward spot to keep up conversation during our 2 day meet, but I am just going to roll with the punches. I figured I can keep him occupied in bed for longer if I really can't think of anything to talk to him about, lol. Until then my loves! x3
MrGreat visited me for a night recently. We had dinner (nothing too great) then returned to his hotel room to do the deed. Before, he gave me my first 2 months allowance in cash. Damn, it felt good to finally have that money in my hands after going through such a fruitless sugar search since August.
I began kissing him, which he really enjoyed since "his wife doesn't kiss him anymore". I enjoyed being able to so easily please him by such a simple act of affection. He then went down on me, and it was quite good. I could tell he hadn't eaten out a woman in a long time by how into it he was, and also how long he stayed down there ;) I proceeded to return the favor to him, then I asked if he was ready to put it in....
Well, oopsy, both of us didn't bring a condom. MrGreat is a "newbie" as he calls himself, and he said that condoms didn't even cross his mind when he was packing to come see me. Of course I didn't bring them because, well... I feel like that's the man's job! Right? It was not a big deal though. He said it was fine, and he was complacent with what we had done. We just hung out and conversed for a bit until I was sleepy and went back to my place. He did ask if I wanted to stay the night, and did not argue at all when I said I preferred to sleep in my own bed.
Our plan was to have an early lunch the next day, and say our goodbyes. Well I woke up instead to numerous text messages from MrGreat asking for me to come over earlier than planned. He wanted to finish what we started the night before. I seriously contemplated pretending I was asleep until it was time for him to check out. I decided to be a good little SB though. We resolved on ordering room service for lunch, and we would do our thang finally while we waited.
The sex was good, and I got off twice. I would rather MrGreat be in a little better shape than he is, but I am so attracted to his personality, sense of humor, etc that it really doesn't bother me. I am finally starting to see how some of you SBs can look past your SDs (lack of) looks and really be able to enjoy the sex with them, even if they're not the best looking guy at the bar, haha. I actually found out that he is about 5 years younger than I thought too.
We are now in the process of planning out our meet for next month. Once again I felt totally confortable around MrGreat the entire time I was with him. I love his sarcastic, matter of fact, slightly pervy sense of humor, and his air of confidence. I do sometimes wish he would ask more questions about me, but I have found that listening is much more beneficial in the end than being the Chatty Kathy always. Plus it makes up for MrSexy's lack of words.
Speaking of, my next post will be about my meet with MrSexy, ooo lala! I cannot wait to get my hands on him again! He has been e-mailing me about what he has planned for us, and seems just as excited as me about seeing one another again. I am a bit worried that his quietness will put me in an awkward spot to keep up conversation during our 2 day meet, but I am just going to roll with the punches. I figured I can keep him occupied in bed for longer if I really can't think of anything to talk to him about, lol. Until then my loves! x3
Monday, October 31, 2011
IT'S RAINING MEN
MrSexy: Met on AM. He is SO. FREAKING. HOTTT! This is the first man that I have been absolutely physically attracted to who I have met for sugar. He is in his mid 30's, tan, muscular, and jaw dropping sexy. He came to my city for 2 nights to meet for the first time. He's married to a much older woman, and says his marriage now lacks the intimacy and sex factor he still craves. He owns his own business, but is very much a southern, low-key (very wealthy) gentleman. Downside of him is he is a bit on the quiet side. I feel like I am doing most of the work when it comes to making conversation, which can get old. The sex is great though! I couldn’t get my dirty mind off of him once he left. He gave me an allowance and took me shopping. We have our next meet planned in 2 weeks in a mutually close location by the beach. He sent me an e-mail saying all the things he has planned out for us. I just can't wait for the hot sex again! ;)
MrGreat: Met on AM. Married as well. Dark eyes and hair, a bit chubby, but great personality and confidence. We met for lunch a few days ago in my city, as he lives only a few hours away. Lunch was great! Good food, and even better conversation. He makes me laugh, and I feel really comfortable around him. I told him how I have wanted to go to Vegas for a really long time, so he may plan something out for the near future. He is willing to give me an allowance, but we have not discussed an actual dollar amount. I am going to let him suggest a figure, and see how generous he really is.
MrRich: Contacted me on SA. He was supposed to come to my city this week for a few nights, so we could test out the chemistry between us. Something came up unexpectedly though, so we are in the process of rescheduling. He is LOADED, and has made it very apparent that he is willing to give me a very hefty allowance for my time. I am afraid though that my schedule is not as flexible as he would like, since it seemed like he wants me to be available at a moment’s notice. I also am weary because he was already asking what I would do if "we fell in love", this and that. Needless to say he is not married. The money potential with him is keeping him on my radar though. I figured I could at least meet him, and possibly get some type of financial help from him before maybe ending things before they really blossom.
I think that MrGreat is the best pot for a long-term, generous, fun SD. MrSexy is so damn fine and gives me an allowance (not as much thus far as I would like though), so I figured I can at least see him once per month for the good sex and extra cash. MrRich I cannot predict much with yet until we actually meet. I will update upon my next meet with one of these men. Until then my sugies, stay sweet x3
MrGreat: Met on AM. Married as well. Dark eyes and hair, a bit chubby, but great personality and confidence. We met for lunch a few days ago in my city, as he lives only a few hours away. Lunch was great! Good food, and even better conversation. He makes me laugh, and I feel really comfortable around him. I told him how I have wanted to go to Vegas for a really long time, so he may plan something out for the near future. He is willing to give me an allowance, but we have not discussed an actual dollar amount. I am going to let him suggest a figure, and see how generous he really is.
MrRich: Contacted me on SA. He was supposed to come to my city this week for a few nights, so we could test out the chemistry between us. Something came up unexpectedly though, so we are in the process of rescheduling. He is LOADED, and has made it very apparent that he is willing to give me a very hefty allowance for my time. I am afraid though that my schedule is not as flexible as he would like, since it seemed like he wants me to be available at a moment’s notice. I also am weary because he was already asking what I would do if "we fell in love", this and that. Needless to say he is not married. The money potential with him is keeping him on my radar though. I figured I could at least meet him, and possibly get some type of financial help from him before maybe ending things before they really blossom.
I think that MrGreat is the best pot for a long-term, generous, fun SD. MrSexy is so damn fine and gives me an allowance (not as much thus far as I would like though), so I figured I can at least see him once per month for the good sex and extra cash. MrRich I cannot predict much with yet until we actually meet. I will update upon my next meet with one of these men. Until then my sugies, stay sweet x3
RANDOM URGE TO POST
About time I feel like sitting down and updating my followers! I'm sorry that I have left you all hanging for this long. I guess I wasn't really on my normal sugar-track for the past few weeks, so it has been hard to really divide my experiences of October into separate entities.
Thanks to a good sugar friend in our community, I have gratefully joined the AM clan. "AM" being a website catered to married people (mostly men of course) that are seeking extramarital affairs. I have to be honest, I cringed the first few times I logged onto the site. Having to read that unbecoming tag line on the log-on screen: "Life's short, have an affair," can make any half-decent person feel a little sick. As mentioned in my last post though, the tasteless men on SA were making me more sick.
At first my profile did not receive attention from the men I wanted to write me. It was a lot of men just looking to have a one-night fling, hot wild sex -thinking "mutually beneficial" meant their (self-assumed) killer moves in the sheets, or exhibitionists sending me dick pics. I figured it would be best for me to stop dancing around the fact I was searching for a benefactor, and get to the point. Once changing the first line of my profile to the fact I was searching for a sugar daddy I got a much better response.
There were many men that were curious about learning what this whole "sugar" idea consisted of, and a lot of men eager to try it out. One in particular I pursued somewhat (nothing else better biting at the time..), but have since dropped him. Most of them just couldn't afford me!
NOW, I have 3 men that I am going to start playing the balance-game with. I am going to do a new post to describe where I am at in the process with them, and how I hope to see things unfold the next few months... since everythingggggg always happens how we plan it in the sugar-world *rolls eyes* lol x3
Thanks to a good sugar friend in our community, I have gratefully joined the AM clan. "AM" being a website catered to married people (mostly men of course) that are seeking extramarital affairs. I have to be honest, I cringed the first few times I logged onto the site. Having to read that unbecoming tag line on the log-on screen: "Life's short, have an affair," can make any half-decent person feel a little sick. As mentioned in my last post though, the tasteless men on SA were making me more sick.
At first my profile did not receive attention from the men I wanted to write me. It was a lot of men just looking to have a one-night fling, hot wild sex -thinking "mutually beneficial" meant their (self-assumed) killer moves in the sheets, or exhibitionists sending me dick pics. I figured it would be best for me to stop dancing around the fact I was searching for a benefactor, and get to the point. Once changing the first line of my profile to the fact I was searching for a sugar daddy I got a much better response.
There were many men that were curious about learning what this whole "sugar" idea consisted of, and a lot of men eager to try it out. One in particular I pursued somewhat (nothing else better biting at the time..), but have since dropped him. Most of them just couldn't afford me!
NOW, I have 3 men that I am going to start playing the balance-game with. I am going to do a new post to describe where I am at in the process with them, and how I hope to see things unfold the next few months... since everythingggggg always happens how we plan it in the sugar-world *rolls eyes* lol x3
Thursday, September 15, 2011
NEEDED UPDATE
I have not been in a blogging mood lately. Probably because I do not have many good things to update my followers on. I'm just going to do this in a list style to get straight to the point:
- MrLocal emailed me saying he found someone else closer to him, and ended any potential arrangement between us at this time; never got a dime out of him.
- I am now on AshleyMadison; I hate how it caters so much to married men and having affairs; makes me feel immoral being on it; also havent had much luck on it. How do you girls approach the idea of a financial agreement with these men since most are unfamiliar with the concept?
- Have a few guys I am emailing now, but not even going to call them pots considering my lack of luck and their lack of initiative.
- Skyped with one guy and thought he'd be a pot , but havent heard from him since... didnt vibe with him much anyways.
- SO READY TO GET OFF SA AGAIN! What the hell happened to the quality of men (and women for that matter) since January? I got called a "cheap whore" by one guy because I said I couldnt travel outside of the US due to my schedule. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME!?!?
- MrLawyer (my very first real SD) texted me randomly just to say hi. He wired me $600 to show me how highly he still thinks of me, etc so thats pretty much all the financial assistance I have gotten since returning back to this lifestyle in August. We may rekindle something temporary until I find an SD *yes I'm back to married men unfortunately*
So not used to this slow of momentum in fidning a genuinely real SD. Hopefully next post will be more positive and green!! x3
- MrLocal emailed me saying he found someone else closer to him, and ended any potential arrangement between us at this time; never got a dime out of him.
- I am now on AshleyMadison; I hate how it caters so much to married men and having affairs; makes me feel immoral being on it; also havent had much luck on it. How do you girls approach the idea of a financial agreement with these men since most are unfamiliar with the concept?
- Have a few guys I am emailing now, but not even going to call them pots considering my lack of luck and their lack of initiative.
- Skyped with one guy and thought he'd be a pot , but havent heard from him since... didnt vibe with him much anyways.
- SO READY TO GET OFF SA AGAIN! What the hell happened to the quality of men (and women for that matter) since January? I got called a "cheap whore" by one guy because I said I couldnt travel outside of the US due to my schedule. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME!?!?
- MrLawyer (my very first real SD) texted me randomly just to say hi. He wired me $600 to show me how highly he still thinks of me, etc so thats pretty much all the financial assistance I have gotten since returning back to this lifestyle in August. We may rekindle something temporary until I find an SD *yes I'm back to married men unfortunately*
So not used to this slow of momentum in fidning a genuinely real SD. Hopefully next post will be more positive and green!! x3
Sunday, August 21, 2011
RETURN TO THE SUGAR GRIND
Dinner with MrLocal went well as expected. We basically recapped a few things we discussed our first meet, and were not hesitant to discuss each of our expectations from a sugar relationship. Once again he expressed his desire to only have one SB. He is looking for more of a girlfriend in the aspect that he wants to get to know his SB on more of a personal level. I am open to this, but I was also straightforward in expressing that I am only looking for a once a month meeting with my SD since that is all my schedule allows, and also all I personally want to dedicate of my real life to being a SB. We are both fair and easy natured people, so it was easy to accept one another’s wants without having to forego our own idealities.
I find myself actually a bit physically attracted to MrLocal which is a definite plus. He told me how he has a daughter that is a few months younger than me which was a bit of a turnoff for me initially, but at this point I would take that over him being attached to a significant other. Because he isn’t I understand his want of more of a girlfriend, rather than just a SB he’s only involved with when face-to-face with her. My only concern is that he will want more of my attention than I am willing to give him when we are in between visits.
We ended dinner on the note that I will keep in touch, and once I return back to school and my schedule is more clear we will decide the next date we will meet. I told him that I am open to flying to where he lives, or wherever his business happens to bring him on the dates we can get together. I told him though I would rather him not come to my college town because it's just too much of a risk with us going out and me running into people I know... awkwarddd.
I also told him the amount I was receiving for allowance per month from my last SD, and he said that the number I mentioned is no problem for him. Of course I will up the ante once we spend more than just a 2 hour meal together -patience is a virtue when it comes to this lifestyle, BUT you have to be careful not to mix up being patient and being a pushover! My next post will come once I have seen MrLocal again. I am about to be busy with getting settled back into my city where I study, and also getting my schedule organized once school starts back up soon. Until then I will see you ladies on facebook x3
I find myself actually a bit physically attracted to MrLocal which is a definite plus. He told me how he has a daughter that is a few months younger than me which was a bit of a turnoff for me initially, but at this point I would take that over him being attached to a significant other. Because he isn’t I understand his want of more of a girlfriend, rather than just a SB he’s only involved with when face-to-face with her. My only concern is that he will want more of my attention than I am willing to give him when we are in between visits.
We ended dinner on the note that I will keep in touch, and once I return back to school and my schedule is more clear we will decide the next date we will meet. I told him that I am open to flying to where he lives, or wherever his business happens to bring him on the dates we can get together. I told him though I would rather him not come to my college town because it's just too much of a risk with us going out and me running into people I know... awkwarddd.
I also told him the amount I was receiving for allowance per month from my last SD, and he said that the number I mentioned is no problem for him. Of course I will up the ante once we spend more than just a 2 hour meal together -patience is a virtue when it comes to this lifestyle, BUT you have to be careful not to mix up being patient and being a pushover! My next post will come once I have seen MrLocal again. I am about to be busy with getting settled back into my city where I study, and also getting my schedule organized once school starts back up soon. Until then I will see you ladies on facebook x3
Thursday, August 18, 2011
I'M BACK!
That's right ladies, Sunny is back!.. and somewhat earlier than anticipated. I was planning on waiting until December to once again begin my life in the sugar world, but decided to take the reigns a bit earlier -and lets just say the horse is already running. As some of you may notice, I am also blogging in a more proper grammatical style (e.g. using capitals) - don't worry though it's still me! I have matured a bit during my hiatus, and have done a hell of a lot with my hard earned sugar money from last year. One being that I traveled out of the country for almost a month, and had some of the most incredible experiences!
When logging onto my sugar fb account I must say that the amount of girls apart of this community has practically quadrupled since me being fully involved. WOW! I see this as a good and bad thing. I hope that the community has been remaining sane, positive, and encouraging. Unfortunately, I have remained in touch with one of our fellow SBs during my break (she was with me and the few other SBs who originally started the sugar fb community) and she has said quite the contrary. It really makes me sad that some ladies are turning , what is suppose to be a nonjudgmental and encouraging outlet for sugars, into a catty arena full of bigotry. No matter how long you have been in this lifestyle: a day, a month, years.. I feel no one should be ostracized, but rather guided and gently pushed in the right direction. Of course this is not everyone in the community, but enough for me to feel the need to point it out in my post. We should all remember that all of us had to start somewhere with this lifestyle!
I know I personally look back at my early posts, and sometimes think "WTF was I thinking/doing/saying?!" Thanks to my willingness to learn from my mistakes though, and the kindness of the SBs who were more experienced than me at that time, I became a stronger SB. I hope those of you who are more of a senior in this lifestyle can use your experiences to teach/guide those girls who are newer to this lifestyle; not use your seniority as an excuse for a powertrip to judge and criticize.
When logging onto my sugar fb account I must say that the amount of girls apart of this community has practically quadrupled since me being fully involved. WOW! I see this as a good and bad thing. I hope that the community has been remaining sane, positive, and encouraging. Unfortunately, I have remained in touch with one of our fellow SBs during my break (she was with me and the few other SBs who originally started the sugar fb community) and she has said quite the contrary. It really makes me sad that some ladies are turning , what is suppose to be a nonjudgmental and encouraging outlet for sugars, into a catty arena full of bigotry. No matter how long you have been in this lifestyle: a day, a month, years.. I feel no one should be ostracized, but rather guided and gently pushed in the right direction. Of course this is not everyone in the community, but enough for me to feel the need to point it out in my post. We should all remember that all of us had to start somewhere with this lifestyle!
I know I personally look back at my early posts, and sometimes think "WTF was I thinking/doing/saying?!" Thanks to my willingness to learn from my mistakes though, and the kindness of the SBs who were more experienced than me at that time, I became a stronger SB. I hope those of you who are more of a senior in this lifestyle can use your experiences to teach/guide those girls who are newer to this lifestyle; not use your seniority as an excuse for a powertrip to judge and criticize.
"It is just as cowardly to judge a person as it is wicked to strike a defenseless one. Only the ignorant and narrow-minded gossip, for they speak of persons instead of [intellectual] things."
-Lawrence G. Lovasik
Anywho, I am still a bit ambivalent about entering back into this lifestyle. I figured I would need to start from scratch on the sites which I was NOT looking forward to.. but I actually had a message in my sugar e-mail account from MrLocal, the last pot I met before taking my break. He is more than likely coming to my city for dinner! Like I have mentioned before: I move fast, lol. I will post after our meet. It went well for him and me our very first meet, so I am curious to see if months of not seeing one another makes a difference. Crossing fingers that I already have an SD very soon again! x3
Monday, January 31, 2011
HIATUS
i will have to keep this post short, sweet, and to the point as i am in the midst of studying for exams. i wanted to inform my followers and fellow sugies that i will be taking a leave from sugar world. it has been more than a year since i have begun this journey. I have been consistent with my posts and upkeep of this lifestyle. those who are friends with me via fb sugar accounts know that things went crazy a little while back with myself and my ex. i will not be going into further details but lets just say i am happy again and am a VERY, VERY lucky to girl to have such an amazing person who loves me dearly in my real life. i refuse to take it so for granted this time and want to dedicate the next few weeks? months? longer? to myself and figuring out what i want for me: financially, romantically, mentally, physically, emotionally, and other ways. i am more than financially confortable at this point after saving my money from past SDs. i plan on spending a good bulk of it traveling outside of the U.S. and using the rest to invest in one way or another for things that add more value to life compared to a new cashmere sweater or luxury car (though these things are nice too lol).
i am going to be telling MrLocal, once and if he contacts me again to reschedule our cancelled second meet, that i will not be indulging in the sugar lifestyle at this time. i will be hiding my profile on SA and slowly be weaning myself off of checking up on fb in order to fully soak up this break i am giving myself. i will though, try to remain in the loop of sugar world through your ladys’ blogs for i do not want to fully block myself off to the point where, if and when, i decide to return here again i am not 100% lost with everyone else's sugar whereabouts and updates.
i wish all of you beautiful, strong women the best of luck and encourage any new readers to still follow my blog so, (once again) if and when, i do begin posting again you can follow my continued journey. big kisses, hugs, and good luck vibes sent to each and every one of you! x3
i am going to be telling MrLocal, once and if he contacts me again to reschedule our cancelled second meet, that i will not be indulging in the sugar lifestyle at this time. i will be hiding my profile on SA and slowly be weaning myself off of checking up on fb in order to fully soak up this break i am giving myself. i will though, try to remain in the loop of sugar world through your ladys’ blogs for i do not want to fully block myself off to the point where, if and when, i decide to return here again i am not 100% lost with everyone else's sugar whereabouts and updates.
i wish all of you beautiful, strong women the best of luck and encourage any new readers to still follow my blog so, (once again) if and when, i do begin posting again you can follow my continued journey. big kisses, hugs, and good luck vibes sent to each and every one of you! x3
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
NEW YEAR & NEW SD
2011! ah it is so beyond me how it has already been over a year since my very first post on here! OMG! i can absolutely say i am a much more experienced SB since my very first posts and can officially and confidently consider myself an actual full fledged sugar baby. 2010 was full of so many events for my sugar and personal life and now i say on to this brand new year!
as i was expecting, MrSingle and i have called it quits. he finally e-mailed me explaining that he felt i was not physically and sexually attracted to him, which was true. he said that he felt it would be best if we went our separate ways and i found someone younger/someone i am more truly attracted to. i e-mailed back saying thank you for finally telling me what was going on and that he is correct and that i wish him the best of luck.
so now i have a new SD! lol. what can i say, i move quick :) he is in the same state as me so i will be referring to him as MrLocal from here on out. his stats in a nut shell: divorced, fairly attractive (dark eyes and hair, average height, not fat, nice teeth, somewhat balding in the back but not noticeable from the front), has a house in his city of living as well as one in his old city of living, and also has a daughter thats 2 years younger than me (yikes! i know... a little awkward but eh what can ya do). we met on SA and after a few exchanges of messages and a phone call we planned a lunch meet in his city. i drove there and stayed with a good friend (aka. fuck buddy, hehe) that i know in the same city so kind of killed 2 birds with 1 stone you could say ;)
lunch wasnt too bad and was at a restaurant at the local mall there. he said he had to pick up a suit and then asked me if i would like to go shopping after. um -YES! i only got a pair of (fab) shoes from ALDO though because i really wanted to go see my "friend" i was staying with and i also wanted to appear less concerned with spending his money on the first meet and really didnt feel too hot with the idea of going shopping with him when we were still on new terms.
we chatted on the phone today and i am going to try to fly to meet him by the end of January. i told him i can only meet 1x per month and he said he would prefer 2x per month. sorry! -no can do i told him.. so he is fully aware of this. he wants long term but i will just be taking it month by month considering he expressed the want to see his SB twice a month. i will be starting at a $3000/month allowance and hopefully over time (if we get to this point) i can up it all the way to 4 then possibly 5 thousand. as of now i am content with the situation and will keep yall posted on eveything.
hope everyones New Years was fantastic! i am back in the city of my university and damn it feels so good to be back! talk to you all sooner than later! muahs! x3
as i was expecting, MrSingle and i have called it quits. he finally e-mailed me explaining that he felt i was not physically and sexually attracted to him, which was true. he said that he felt it would be best if we went our separate ways and i found someone younger/someone i am more truly attracted to. i e-mailed back saying thank you for finally telling me what was going on and that he is correct and that i wish him the best of luck.
so now i have a new SD! lol. what can i say, i move quick :) he is in the same state as me so i will be referring to him as MrLocal from here on out. his stats in a nut shell: divorced, fairly attractive (dark eyes and hair, average height, not fat, nice teeth, somewhat balding in the back but not noticeable from the front), has a house in his city of living as well as one in his old city of living, and also has a daughter thats 2 years younger than me (yikes! i know... a little awkward but eh what can ya do). we met on SA and after a few exchanges of messages and a phone call we planned a lunch meet in his city. i drove there and stayed with a good friend (aka. fuck buddy, hehe) that i know in the same city so kind of killed 2 birds with 1 stone you could say ;)
lunch wasnt too bad and was at a restaurant at the local mall there. he said he had to pick up a suit and then asked me if i would like to go shopping after. um -YES! i only got a pair of (fab) shoes from ALDO though because i really wanted to go see my "friend" i was staying with and i also wanted to appear less concerned with spending his money on the first meet and really didnt feel too hot with the idea of going shopping with him when we were still on new terms.
we chatted on the phone today and i am going to try to fly to meet him by the end of January. i told him i can only meet 1x per month and he said he would prefer 2x per month. sorry! -no can do i told him.. so he is fully aware of this. he wants long term but i will just be taking it month by month considering he expressed the want to see his SB twice a month. i will be starting at a $3000/month allowance and hopefully over time (if we get to this point) i can up it all the way to 4 then possibly 5 thousand. as of now i am content with the situation and will keep yall posted on eveything.
hope everyones New Years was fantastic! i am back in the city of my university and damn it feels so good to be back! talk to you all sooner than later! muahs! x3
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