MR.LAWYERS VISIT PART I

finally i get to blog about my meet with MrLawyer last week! things have been soooo hectic schedule-wise for me. mainly due to my hard as hell summer classes!! i finally decided today to buy myself out of it by paying a personal tutor to help me out.. made me realize how sweet it is to be able to use $$$ to buy your way out of stress. and now i have more time for SD-hunting and having a social life ;) though i believe i have found a great catch in MrLawyer...

he flew in last week late afternoon. not going to lie - i was much more nervous than usual about the meet but of course wasnt going to bail out once he had landed in my hometown! like discussed, i had my own hotel room separate from his. he scheduled 1 hour massages for us at a spa within walking distance of the hotel which definitely helped make me more comfortable... my masseuse was actually pretty hot and it was kinda funny to see MrLawyers expression when he noticed it too... jealousy? hehe. the masseuse hottie ended up being gay tho - figures lol.

after the massages we had time to kill before our dinner reservations. so i invited MrLawyer to come hang out in my hotel room (even tho i would have preferred taking a relaxing bath and nap) but he was there to spend time with me and in order to get the money and live-up to the MUTUAL aspect that comes from these type of 'relationships' u gotta do what u gotta do. we started making out and i kept telling him "not to get too frisky" since i thought we had established we werent taking things to the next level for this 2nd meet. *SCREEEEECH* "wait -you're not planning on having sex?" MrLawyer responds. uh oh.
i guess i hadnt been as clear as i thought about me not wanting to get intimate. i pointed out to him tho that his exact words to me when we were planning out this meet was "all you are obligated to do when im there is have dinner with me." luckily we put it on the back-burner since it was time to get ready for dinner.

dinner was.... eh. i was disappointed by the food actually and the bar tender was such an ass! i ordered a soda and MrLawyer ordered an alcoholic drink and we traded (since im not 21 and dont have a fake) and the bar tender completely called us out on it! after the fact it was actually hilarious and gave both of us a good laugh over dinner... though i did feel like there was a very hostile energy towards him and i throughout the whole meal.. prob due to the fact he is 35+ years my senior! ha.
after dinner, the topic of me not wanting to have sex came up again and we spent like over half an hour discussing it! and me explaining why i was making the decision to abstain from it for the 2nd meet. finally he said he had to check in with his wife and left my room and i was left to decide -was the money worth me breaking the promise i made to myself not to get intimate with him and to go against my my morals?
*WILL CONTINUE NEXT POST* x3

HOME SWEET HOME

i am officially back living at home now that i am done with my temporary job that started in Jan.. which was the same time i launched my SD search. within a 5 months span i have been lucky to not experience anything awful or crazy with pots by using my smarts and following my intuition... also i have gained some cash, experiences, gifts, and above all -knowledge with how these SD/SB arrangements are suppose to work. even so though, i have still YET to find a SD that i can consider a reliable, long-term source of monetary assistance and essentially someone i can call my SD.

at the same time i am awaiting MrLawyer's arrival this Wed... an SD who definitely knows how an arrangement is suppose to work and has great promise for becoming a long-term arrangement! im still anxious about being the hostess to a SD since in the past i have always been the one being hosted/seeing a SD in his city of living. as of now our plan is to have reflexology massages (look it up.. they sound amazing!) when he gets here then go out to dinner to a super nice restaurant in this area. im still conjuring up what i want us to do the day after. im leaning towards a fancy brunch and casual outing (arcade, aquarium, etc?). we will see! x3

ENDING OF THE BEGINNING

first of all i want to start off by saying im so sad that sarah has quit her blog! :'( i hope that if she decides to join us here again in SugarLand she will recount her ventures once again ... there is hope bc i feel like once u get a little taste of the sugar its hard to get rid of the sweet tooth for good -unless u get a wrench to pull the whole damn thing out!.. or fall in true love with a non-SD?

update for me right now: i am still completely D-O-N-E with LatinLover and MrDoolittle for reasons mentioned in last posts. i am hoping that i have finally found a pot that could truely become a long-term SD and finally free me of having to scour SD websites and go on dates with pots! (though those can be fun sometimes).

last post i was talking about how MrLawyer and i were having major issues trying to coincide our schedules in order to find a date that we could meet again. WELLLL he is much more into me than i thought i guess.. we were texting sometime last week and were realizing that our 2nd meet was just not going to happen as soon as we were originally planning. i was saying that i guess maybe later on in the months, if neither of us had found what we were looking for, we could reconnect again when our schedules were more free. he texts me back saying that he was surprised i was giving up so easily and asked me if i had found someone else?? lol -nooooo i havent. he wanted to talk on the phone to see if we could make something work. so now he is flying to come see me! this is my first experience with a SD flying out just so he can see me... i feel a little pressure about it -not gunna lie- and almost a little overwhelmed... but most of all excited that i seem to have found a SD that treats me higher than he sees himself and knows what the meaning of 'respect' is and a traditional SD/SB arrangement. hes flying in late-afternoon and then leaving afternoon the next day so i dont know how much time we have to kill... any of u ladies who have had a SD come to see u -what did u do?!? im low-maintenance when it comes to things to do and prefer casual, fun outings like bowling or arcades (cheesy i know lol) so should i suggest this? or should i ask to go shopping or to a spa? i dont know but i'd take either one!

we have already established that i will have my own hotel room so i dont have to drive home and back when he comes in but rather just stay at the same place -not room!- as him and he even said that he only goes to sleep and wakes up with one person (im assuming he was referring to his wife?) -which is FIIIINE with me :):)

im expecting him to give me some type of allowance money when he visits... at this point we have not discussed a specific amount i want every month. he asked me a # i expect and i told him i would count on his generosity rather than tell him a set amount.. I mean he did give me $400 our first meet so im not too worried in leaving the exact figure to him. also, this way i can test his generosity while also not saying a # that is lower than he may have intended. and if for some reason I am not satisfied with the amount he gives me than the bargaining of the big-'A' (allowance) can ensue x3