HIATUS

i will have to keep this post short, sweet, and to the point as i am in the midst of studying for exams. i wanted to inform my followers and fellow sugies that i will be taking a leave from sugar world. it has been more than a year since i have begun this journey. I have been consistent with my posts and upkeep of this lifestyle. those who are friends with me via fb sugar accounts know that things went crazy a little while back with myself and my ex. i will not be going into further details but lets just say i am happy again and am a VERY, VERY lucky to girl to have such an amazing person who loves me dearly in my real life. i refuse to take it so for granted this time and want to dedicate the next few weeks? months? longer? to myself and figuring out what i want for me: financially, romantically, mentally, physically, emotionally, and other ways. i am more than financially confortable at this point after saving my money from past SDs. i plan on spending a good bulk of it traveling outside of the U.S. and using the rest to invest in one way or another for things that add more value to life compared to a new cashmere sweater or luxury car (though these things are nice too lol).

i am going to be telling MrLocal, once and if he contacts me again to reschedule our cancelled second meet, that i will not be indulging in the sugar lifestyle at this time. i will be hiding my profile on SA and slowly be weaning myself off of checking up on fb in order to fully soak up this break i am giving myself. i will though, try to remain in the loop of sugar world through your ladys’ blogs for i do not want to fully block myself off to the point where, if and when, i decide to return here again i am not 100% lost with everyone else's sugar whereabouts and updates.

i wish all of you beautiful, strong women the best of luck and encourage any new readers to still follow my blog so, (once again) if and when, i do begin posting again you can follow my continued journey. big kisses, hugs, and good luck vibes sent to each and every one of you! x3

NEW YEAR & NEW SD

2011! ah it is so beyond me how it has already been over a year since my very first post on here! OMG! i can absolutely say i am a much more experienced SB since my very first posts and can officially and confidently consider myself an actual full fledged sugar baby. 2010 was full of so many events for my sugar and personal life and now i say on to this brand new year!
as i was expecting, MrSingle and i have called it quits. he finally e-mailed me explaining that he felt i was not physically and sexually attracted to him, which was true. he said that he felt it would be best if we went our separate ways and i found someone younger/someone i am more truly attracted to. i e-mailed back saying thank you for finally telling me what was going on and that he is correct and that i wish him the best of luck.
so now i have a new SD! lol. what can i say, i move quick :) he is in the same state as me so i will be referring to him as MrLocal from here on out. his stats in a nut shell: divorced, fairly attractive (dark eyes and hair, average height, not fat, nice teeth, somewhat balding in the back but not noticeable from the front), has a house in his city of living as well as one in his old city of living, and also has a daughter thats 2 years younger than me (yikes! i know... a little awkward but eh what can ya do). we met on SA and after a few exchanges of messages and a phone call we planned a lunch meet in his city. i drove there and stayed with a good friend (aka. fuck buddy, hehe) that i know in the same city so kind of killed 2 birds with 1 stone you could say ;)
lunch wasnt too bad and was at a restaurant at the local mall there. he said he had to pick up a suit and then asked me if i would like to go shopping after. um -YES! i only got a pair of (fab) shoes from ALDO though because i really wanted to go see my "friend" i was staying with and i also wanted to appear less concerned with spending his money on the first meet and really didnt feel too hot with the idea of going shopping with him when we were still on new terms.
we chatted on the phone today and i am going to try to fly to meet him by the end of January. i told him i can only meet 1x per month and he said he would prefer 2x per month. sorry! -no can do i told him.. so he is fully aware of this. he wants long term but i will just be taking it month by month considering he expressed the want to see his SB twice a month. i will be starting at a $3000/month allowance and hopefully over time (if we get to this point) i can up it all the way to 4 then possibly 5 thousand. as of now i am content with the situation and will keep yall posted on eveything.
hope everyones New Years was fantastic! i am back in the city of my university and damn it feels so good to be back! talk to you all sooner than later! muahs! x3