Monday, October 31, 2011

IT'S RAINING MEN

MrSexy: Met on AM. He is SO. FREAKING. HOTTT! This is the first man that I have been absolutely physically attracted to who I have met for sugar. He is in his mid 30's, tan, muscular, and jaw dropping sexy. He came to my city for 2 nights to meet for the first time. He's married to a much older woman, and says his marriage now lacks the intimacy and sex factor he still craves. He owns his own business, but is very much a southern, low-key (very wealthy) gentleman. Downside of him is he is a bit on the quiet side. I feel like I am doing most of the work when it comes to making conversation, which can get old. The sex is great though! I couldn’t get my dirty mind off of him once he left. He gave me an allowance and took me shopping. We have our next meet planned in 2 weeks in a mutually close location by the beach. He sent me an e-mail saying all the things he has planned out for us. I just can't wait for the hot sex again! ;)


MrGreat: Met on AM. Married as well. Dark eyes and hair, a bit chubby, but great personality and confidence. We met for lunch a few days ago in my city, as he lives only a few hours away. Lunch was great! Good food, and even better conversation. He makes me laugh, and I feel really comfortable around him. I told him how I have wanted to go to Vegas for a really long time, so he may plan something out for the near future. He is willing to give me an allowance, but we have not discussed an actual dollar amount. I am going to let him suggest a figure, and see how generous he really is.


MrRich: Contacted me on SA. He was supposed to come to my city this week for a few nights, so we could test out the chemistry between us. Something came up unexpectedly though, so we are in the process of rescheduling. He is LOADED, and has made it very apparent that he is willing to give me a very hefty allowance for my time. I am afraid though that my schedule is not as flexible as he would like, since it seemed like he wants me to be available at a moment’s notice. I also am weary because he was already asking what I would do if "we fell in love", this and that. Needless to say he is not married. The money potential with him is keeping him on my radar though. I figured I could at least meet him, and possibly get some type of financial help from him before maybe ending things before they really blossom.


I think that MrGreat is the best pot for a long-term, generous, fun SD. MrSexy is so damn fine and gives me an allowance (not as much thus far as I would like though), so I figured I can at least see him once per month for the good sex and extra cash. MrRich I cannot predict much with yet until we actually meet. I will update upon my next meet with one of these men. Until then my sugies, stay sweet x3

RANDOM URGE TO POST

About time I feel like sitting down and updating my followers! I'm sorry that I have left you all hanging for this long. I guess I wasn't really on my normal sugar-track for the past few weeks, so it has been hard to really divide my experiences of October into separate entities.

Thanks to a good sugar friend in our community, I have gratefully joined the AM clan. "AM" being a website catered to married people (mostly men of course) that are seeking extramarital affairs. I have to be honest, I cringed the first few times I logged onto the site. Having to read that unbecoming tag line on the log-on screen: "Life's short, have an affair," can make any half-decent person feel a little sick. As mentioned in my last post though, the tasteless men on SA were making me more sick.

At first my profile did not receive attention from the men I wanted to write me. It was a lot of men just looking to have a one-night fling, hot wild sex -thinking "mutually beneficial" meant their (self-assumed) killer moves in the sheets, or exhibitionists sending me dick pics. I figured it would be best for me to stop dancing around the fact I was searching for a benefactor, and get to the point. Once changing the first line of my profile to the fact I was searching for a sugar daddy I got a much better response.

There were many men that were curious about learning what this whole "sugar" idea consisted of, and a lot of men eager to try it out. One in particular I pursued somewhat (nothing else better biting at the time..), but have since dropped him. Most of them just couldn't afford me!

NOW, I have 3 men that I am going to start playing the balance-game with. I am going to do a new post to describe where I am at in the process with them, and how I hope to see things unfold the next few months... since everythingggggg always happens how we plan it in the sugar-world *rolls eyes* lol x3