DISMISSALS AND ARRIVALS

Since my last post (once again) much has changed. Mr.Opps is still in the picture, but my friend and I have officially deemed him a "creeper". Of course I am jaded to the "creepiness" factor older men posses due to my sugar life, but this is my friend's first experience engaging with an older man that is obviously attracted to much younger women. He is starting to make it apparent that he wants sexual favors now in return for the valuable networking opportunities he has provided my friend and me. I essentially said HELL NO, and reiterated that he has known this from the git-go. He agreed, but did inquire about me helping him find a travel companion for an upcoming trip (expect to see more about this in the fb sugar community). I also want to keep on his good side for my friend's benefit, and the fact he is still giving her money for the "scholarship" he is providing her. For me though his value is obsolete.

I finally told Mr.RealEstate that I do not see me visiting him again. In reality it is because he is asking for way too much of my time for way too little of an allowance. I want to keep him a connection for me though in the future, so basically I worded the cancellation of a future arrangement as to make it seem my schedule is uber busy, and it won't work out for me to see him 2 weekends per month as he would like. He responded that he understood and "adores me", and to definitely keep in touch.

Oh, and guy from Miami I mentioned in the past paragraph of my last post has been dismissed as well.

So who are the arrivals? Well Mr.Travel is still in the picture, but currently on my bad side. I am going to dedicate my next post to go into detail about my trip to Puerto Rico with him. Summed up: it was SUCH A FUN TIME!!.... BUT, I have yet to see a dime from him in regards to my allowance. Mega grrrrrr! After hassling him about it last week (something I despise doing with SDs) I sent him a blunt e-mail that basically called him out on making empty promises, and that I am now behind on rent due to this (a lie, but thought I would throw it in for the reinforcement of my point). He responded back apologizing, and said that an unplanned trip threw him off. I am hoping to see the money in my account tomorrow when the banks open again, and crossing my fingers he throws in some extra $$$ to make up for this inconvenience ;) I really do like Mr.Travel a lot, as we get along sooooo well. I am not looking to deal with a delayed allowance every month though, so will have to discuss an easier way for him to get the money into my account more effectively. Last we talked, a trip to Vegas was in the works for our next meet. Yippee!

BRAND NEW ARRIVAL: Mr.Right! I have a plane ticket booked to meet him in March, and he has me set up at the Ritz for my 1 night stay. He is very familiar with being an SD, and has had multiple long term arrangements. He’s divorced (so no wifey drama/discretion to deal with), and seems super nice and genuine over the phone. I am really excited about this one as he has promised me an allowance that far exceeds what I have received in the past. Not going to write much else him as to avoid the infamous jinxing-effect this sometimes causes us SBs.

Have a guy from AM visiting me this week in my city. He is going to fly in for the night so we can do dinner and breakfast. He's young and we have yet to discuss an actual allowance figure, so kind of just seeing this guy as having potential to be a pot, lol. We'll see. Right now though my main priorities are Mr.Travel (and getting my damn allowance form him!) and Mr.Right. Until then, my fingers are crossed (but not my legs, hahaha kidding.. kind of :p ). x3

THE LITTLE ENGINE THAT COULD

my first shopping trip went quite well with LatinLover. i got 2 pairs of shoes from aldo and over $100 worth of MAC make-up :) i got sooo freaking high tho before bc like ive mentioned before -he yaps my fucking ear off sometimes with all his crazy stories and antics and baggage -and plus i was kinda nervous since i was losing my SD shopping virginity lol. so i figured being stoned would help hehe... i felt kinda guilty but whatever i got my shoes and he got his sex so it was a win-win situation. i basically told him before we got started that i wanted to establish what i wanted... i told him some makeup from MAC and like 3 pairs of shoes (2 pairs of heels and some gladiator/strappy flats). we spent like over 2 hours trying to find flats with no success because my foot is so damn narrow so all the cute shoes were too wide. no worries tho -next time? we met up for lunch yesterday and had some amazinggg sushi -have yall ever had fatty tuna? it sounds gross but its like the best cut of the tuna and it was muy delicioso! he was talking about how so many people are unappreciative these days and how he does stuff for so many people without aksing for ne thing in return and i was like "umm i hope u are not indirectly referring to me.." and he said no and afterwards texted me reassuring he was in no way insinuating towards me and that i had shown my appreciation above and beyond. and sexually.. lol phew!

i also met that pot from SA i mentioned 2 posts ago. i am going to call him MrAll-Star... he used to play baseball in college and taught little league and just seems like he was an all-american type of guy in college.  we met at a sushi place... i liked that he just ordered whatever without caring about amount or price or anything.. we tried jellyfish -it was interesting to say the least...  the service sucked though but i made sure i didnt act like a whiney brat and bitch about it. when i went to the bathroom he texted me saying that i was hot and "where does he sign my contract?" to basically be in an arrangement with me.. i didnt see it til we said goodbye tho thankfully bc it would have felt awakward for me i think if i had seen it before we said our farewells lol. not much has happened since tho -its been over a week since our meet and we have kept in touch vaguely through text. he said he was willing to do a $500/week allowance -even if we didnt see eachother every week -the thing is tho we havent even seen eachother since our 1st meet so its been hard to really establish ne thing. i texted him today asking if he wanted to meet again this weekend and he said he texted me inviting me to a baseball game in our city and didnt hear back from me so had already made other plans... WELL thats bc i didnt get the freaking text. so i was like "if i dont respond back its bc i didnt get the text bc i will always text back". i was about to be like maybe we an arrangement between us is not going to work bc of our conflicting plans/schedules.. but i dont want to be hasty so im just gunna keep chugging along and hopefully will get some money to fill my sugar freight cars along this rocky SB track -blah x3