DISMISSALS AND ARRIVALS

Since my last post (once again) much has changed. Mr.Opps is still in the picture, but my friend and I have officially deemed him a "creeper". Of course I am jaded to the "creepiness" factor older men posses due to my sugar life, but this is my friend's first experience engaging with an older man that is obviously attracted to much younger women. He is starting to make it apparent that he wants sexual favors now in return for the valuable networking opportunities he has provided my friend and me. I essentially said HELL NO, and reiterated that he has known this from the git-go. He agreed, but did inquire about me helping him find a travel companion for an upcoming trip (expect to see more about this in the fb sugar community). I also want to keep on his good side for my friend's benefit, and the fact he is still giving her money for the "scholarship" he is providing her. For me though his value is obsolete.

I finally told Mr.RealEstate that I do not see me visiting him again. In reality it is because he is asking for way too much of my time for way too little of an allowance. I want to keep him a connection for me though in the future, so basically I worded the cancellation of a future arrangement as to make it seem my schedule is uber busy, and it won't work out for me to see him 2 weekends per month as he would like. He responded that he understood and "adores me", and to definitely keep in touch.

Oh, and guy from Miami I mentioned in the past paragraph of my last post has been dismissed as well.

So who are the arrivals? Well Mr.Travel is still in the picture, but currently on my bad side. I am going to dedicate my next post to go into detail about my trip to Puerto Rico with him. Summed up: it was SUCH A FUN TIME!!.... BUT, I have yet to see a dime from him in regards to my allowance. Mega grrrrrr! After hassling him about it last week (something I despise doing with SDs) I sent him a blunt e-mail that basically called him out on making empty promises, and that I am now behind on rent due to this (a lie, but thought I would throw it in for the reinforcement of my point). He responded back apologizing, and said that an unplanned trip threw him off. I am hoping to see the money in my account tomorrow when the banks open again, and crossing my fingers he throws in some extra $$$ to make up for this inconvenience ;) I really do like Mr.Travel a lot, as we get along sooooo well. I am not looking to deal with a delayed allowance every month though, so will have to discuss an easier way for him to get the money into my account more effectively. Last we talked, a trip to Vegas was in the works for our next meet. Yippee!

BRAND NEW ARRIVAL: Mr.Right! I have a plane ticket booked to meet him in March, and he has me set up at the Ritz for my 1 night stay. He is very familiar with being an SD, and has had multiple long term arrangements. He’s divorced (so no wifey drama/discretion to deal with), and seems super nice and genuine over the phone. I am really excited about this one as he has promised me an allowance that far exceeds what I have received in the past. Not going to write much else him as to avoid the infamous jinxing-effect this sometimes causes us SBs.

Have a guy from AM visiting me this week in my city. He is going to fly in for the night so we can do dinner and breakfast. He's young and we have yet to discuss an actual allowance figure, so kind of just seeing this guy as having potential to be a pot, lol. We'll see. Right now though my main priorities are Mr.Travel (and getting my damn allowance form him!) and Mr.Right. Until then, my fingers are crossed (but not my legs, hahaha kidding.. kind of :p ). x3

NEEDED UPDATE

I apologize in advance for the straight to the point style of this post. Have not really been in a blogging mood lately, but know I need to post because a lot has changed since my last one. I am just going to set this up in a paragraph-per-guy way.

Mr.Opps: Met him off of AM, and met for lunch. He is WAY too old for me, and I knew right away I would not take him on as my SD. He is an alum of my university, and has a ton of connects in my city though. Told him I am not interested in pursuing an arrangement, but am interested in working at the parties he hosts and getting paid for it. He invited myself and my best friend to lunch the other day after I mentioned the financial hardships she was going through. I told her he is a "mentor" of mine I met through my major, so she is unaware still of my sugar life. He is now helping her out financially by passing it off as a "scholarship". We met MrOpps friend who knows VERY notable people in my city, and we are having dinner with one of them next week.

Mr.RealEstate: Divorced. Flew in to meet him last weekend. He is from a city in the same state of mine, so it was a very short flight and not that big of a deal flying to meet him considering we had never priorly met in person. The meet went well, but he did not offer enough of an allowance for me to want to settle with him. He is depositing money in my account every week at this time, but I am unsure still if I want to see him again. Figured I will meet with him 1 more time, let him put another grand or 2 in my account, then call it quits. He did inspire an interest in real estate for me though, since that is how he made his fortune. Very nice guy though, and taught me how to drive stick in his Viper. So much fun!

Mr. Travel: Flew into my city a few nights ago to meet, and from a city in the same state as me too. Wants a companion for business and pleasure trips. Divorced, owner of his business, attractive, and we get along really well. Both of us see life through the same lens, and just want to have fun in living it. He was quite flakey with his communication prior to us meeting, and mentioned he is a very last minute person due to his overtly busy schedule. This could be a bit annoyng to me since I very much like to plan things in advance, and have a set agenda. We both decided we want to move forward, BUT I have not had the allowance discussion with him yet. Think we may be going to Vegas now next weekend, and it will be my first time going!!! Really hope it works out, and figured we will have our needed dicu$$ion then... and if I decide he's not offering enough, then at least I finally got to go to Vegas, haha.

Mr.Sexy: Done with him. Have mentioned him in past posts. He is hot as hellll, but has cancelled planned meets 2 months in a row. When he e-mailed me saying he could not make it again this past month, I didn't even bother responding. If he comes out of the woodworks randomly in the future, and I need an extra 1000bucks, maybe I'll respond. At this point though I am moving on to men I have more of a mental connection to who are more familiar with the sugar lifestyle.

Was also just texted my a guy from Miami who I apparently spoke to a few months back. Had him send me his profile on SA, and his net worth is "over $1million", so that's promising at least (though I am aware that stated fact could be complete bull shit). Get a good vibe from him though, so going to pursue things. Basically basing things off of attraction level (physically and convo wise) and who wants to meet the least amount of times per month for the most allowance. Ready to get something stable going again, and I see it happening quite soon x3