I apologize in advance for the straight to the point style of this post. Have not really been in a blogging mood lately, but know I need to post because a lot has changed since my last one. I am just going to set this up in a paragraph-per-guy way.
Mr.Opps: Met him off of AM, and met for lunch. He is WAY too old for me, and I knew right away I would not take him on as my SD. He is an alum of my university, and has a ton of connects in my city though. Told him I am not interested in pursuing an arrangement, but am interested in working at the parties he hosts and getting paid for it. He invited myself and my best friend to lunch the other day after I mentioned the financial hardships she was going through. I told her he is a "mentor" of mine I met through my major, so she is unaware still of my sugar life. He is now helping her out financially by passing it off as a "scholarship". We met MrOpps friend who knows VERY notable people in my city, and we are having dinner with one of them next week.
Mr.RealEstate: Divorced. Flew in to meet him last weekend. He is from a city in the same state of mine, so it was a very short flight and not that big of a deal flying to meet him considering we had never priorly met in person. The meet went well, but he did not offer enough of an allowance for me to want to settle with him. He is depositing money in my account every week at this time, but I am unsure still if I want to see him again. Figured I will meet with him 1 more time, let him put another grand or 2 in my account, then call it quits. He did inspire an interest in real estate for me though, since that is how he made his fortune. Very nice guy though, and taught me how to drive stick in his Viper. So much fun!
Mr. Travel: Flew into my city a few nights ago to meet, and from a city in the same state as me too. Wants a companion for business and pleasure trips. Divorced, owner of his business, attractive, and we get along really well. Both of us see life through the same lens, and just want to have fun in living it. He was quite flakey with his communication prior to us meeting, and mentioned he is a very last minute person due to his overtly busy schedule. This could be a bit annoyng to me since I very much like to plan things in advance, and have a set agenda. We both decided we want to move forward, BUT I have not had the allowance discussion with him yet. Think we may be going to Vegas now next weekend, and it will be my first time going!!! Really hope it works out, and figured we will have our needed dicu$$ion then... and if I decide he's not offering enough, then at least I finally got to go to Vegas, haha.
Mr.Sexy: Done with him. Have mentioned him in past posts. He is hot as hellll, but has cancelled planned meets 2 months in a row. When he e-mailed me saying he could not make it again this past month, I didn't even bother responding. If he comes out of the woodworks randomly in the future, and I need an extra 1000bucks, maybe I'll respond. At this point though I am moving on to men I have more of a mental connection to who are more familiar with the sugar lifestyle.
Was also just texted my a guy from Miami who I apparently spoke to a few months back. Had him send me his profile on SA, and his net worth is "over $1million", so that's promising at least (though I am aware that stated fact could be complete bull shit). Get a good vibe from him though, so going to pursue things. Basically basing things off of attraction level (physically and convo wise) and who wants to meet the least amount of times per month for the most allowance. Ready to get something stable going again, and I see it happening quite soon x3
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Friday, January 27, 2012
Sunday, January 8, 2012
CONTINUANCE FROM LAST POST
Sam knocked on my door a few minutes later. She helped me finish my yummy flourless chocolate cake dessert, and began telling me about how her and Tony were meshing with one another. Things hadn't gotten much better since seeing her earlier in the afternoon, when finding out Tony no longer wanted to stay at the resort until the originally planned Tuesday. It was to get even worse too, unbeknownst to us at that moment in time.
I really felt bad that she wasn't having nearly as enjoyable of a time as me, so I opted that we order a bottle of champagne to make a toast to us lady sugars and cheer her up. I decided to splurge a bit (on MrGreat’s account of course) and ordered a bottle of Dom Perignon that was over $500. They ended up accidently bringing us a cheaper $300 bottle at first. We didn't take notice, so we popped it open and began drinking. I was feeling a bit buzzed already, considering I had already downed a whole bottle of champagne myself prior to Sam's arrival. All of a sudden we hear a knock at the door, and it's room service holding the correct bottle of champagne! So we ended up getting a nice 2 for 1 deal ;)
We decided to go check out the resort bar downstairs, but there wasn't much happening with it being off-season and really not a lot of young people staying there. After drunkenly stumbling back to my room and saying goodnight to Sam, I enjoyed a nice night's sleep alone.
In the morning I awoke to a text from Sam. She had come across messages between Tony and MrGreat after going through Tony's phone when he was gone at the gym. Apparently there were mean things Tony called Sam that pertained to her weight, and made it known that he was looking forward to returning back home to his family. I told her to come to my room to talk about it, and convinced her to book the most expensive spa package to fit in some R&R to help ease her frustrations over Tony. I ordered breakfast room service, and ordered a bath soak treatment from the spa, where they come to your room and draw you a bath with body nourishing bath salts. It was a wonderful way to begin my last day at the resort, but I still felt bad about how Sam's experience was turning out.
Later in the day I got a text from Sam saying that Tony had asked/told her to leave later that day (Saturday) with me now, instead of Sunday. MrGreat had arranged for a driver to bring me from the hotel back to the airport for later on in the afternoon. She was quite upset over it, and was really confused as to what went so wrong with him. She truly did do everything to please Tony, and he was not reciprocating positively at all. Also, he only gave her $300 towards getting a hotel for 2 nights since she couldn’t find a flight out until Monday, and also did not reimburse her for the fee she was charged to change her flight. I couldn't think of much to say because I was just as taken aback and surprised at how he was acting too! I had spoke to him a bit earlier in the day when I ran into him at the bar, and he seemed very calm and relaxed and we didn't really discuss anything about the situation occurring with him and Sam.
Sam packed all of her things while Tony was gone getting a massage later, and stayed in my room while I got my own last massage of the trip. When I was done and went back to the room to pack, she was in tears and was so ready to be back home. I tried consoling her as best as I could, and we both left shortly after with the driver. I was dropped off at the airport to check in for my flight. My phone had died on the drive there, so I finally was able to charge it once I got to my gate. When I turned it on I had a text from Sam saying that once I had been dropped off, the driver refused to bring her to the hotel she was to stay at in Miami because it was not "in the arranged plan" he had made with MrGreat. Since Tony had so unexpectedly made Sam leave that day, there was nothing she could do about it and it had not been discussed with the driver. She wrote that she ended up having to get a cab to another hotel and had to spend her own money to pay for everything. I felt so damn bad, and was helpless at that point to do anything for her. When I landed I e-mailed Sam telling her to write MrGreat about what all had happened. She was hesitant since she didn't to upset MrGreat over a situation that he wasn't a part of, but I convinced her to do it because MrGreat had a right to know what an ass hole Tony ended up being.
Once I was home, I wrote MrGreat and thanked him for a wonderful time and trip and for being so generous. When he wrote back, he said he enjoyed his time as well. HOWEVER... Tony's experience did not turn out as expected. Because of this, he said Tony was deterred from pursuing anything with the sugar lifestyle, and that meant that MrGreat was not going to either. Such bull shit! I wrote him back saying I understood, but at the same time thought it was silly that he was basing his decision off of another person and that I wish he had been more clear about how much of his decision to be an SD was connected to someone else, that being Tony. We parted on good terms, but I felt very frustrated. It was such an amazing trip, and I was really getting my hopes up that I had found a long term SD finally. Unfortunately that’s not the case, and now I am back on the prowl. Ay yi yi, it's never ending!
I am meeting up with MrSexy again in a week. He is going to stay in my city for 2 nights, so hopefully I will be getting a little extra cash out of that. Overall, I still feel very blessed for everything else I have going on in my real life… apart from the sugar life. Finding that ideal SD will just be the cherry on my cake! x3
I really felt bad that she wasn't having nearly as enjoyable of a time as me, so I opted that we order a bottle of champagne to make a toast to us lady sugars and cheer her up. I decided to splurge a bit (on MrGreat’s account of course) and ordered a bottle of Dom Perignon that was over $500. They ended up accidently bringing us a cheaper $300 bottle at first. We didn't take notice, so we popped it open and began drinking. I was feeling a bit buzzed already, considering I had already downed a whole bottle of champagne myself prior to Sam's arrival. All of a sudden we hear a knock at the door, and it's room service holding the correct bottle of champagne! So we ended up getting a nice 2 for 1 deal ;)
We decided to go check out the resort bar downstairs, but there wasn't much happening with it being off-season and really not a lot of young people staying there. After drunkenly stumbling back to my room and saying goodnight to Sam, I enjoyed a nice night's sleep alone.
In the morning I awoke to a text from Sam. She had come across messages between Tony and MrGreat after going through Tony's phone when he was gone at the gym. Apparently there were mean things Tony called Sam that pertained to her weight, and made it known that he was looking forward to returning back home to his family. I told her to come to my room to talk about it, and convinced her to book the most expensive spa package to fit in some R&R to help ease her frustrations over Tony. I ordered breakfast room service, and ordered a bath soak treatment from the spa, where they come to your room and draw you a bath with body nourishing bath salts. It was a wonderful way to begin my last day at the resort, but I still felt bad about how Sam's experience was turning out.
Later in the day I got a text from Sam saying that Tony had asked/told her to leave later that day (Saturday) with me now, instead of Sunday. MrGreat had arranged for a driver to bring me from the hotel back to the airport for later on in the afternoon. She was quite upset over it, and was really confused as to what went so wrong with him. She truly did do everything to please Tony, and he was not reciprocating positively at all. Also, he only gave her $300 towards getting a hotel for 2 nights since she couldn’t find a flight out until Monday, and also did not reimburse her for the fee she was charged to change her flight. I couldn't think of much to say because I was just as taken aback and surprised at how he was acting too! I had spoke to him a bit earlier in the day when I ran into him at the bar, and he seemed very calm and relaxed and we didn't really discuss anything about the situation occurring with him and Sam.
Sam packed all of her things while Tony was gone getting a massage later, and stayed in my room while I got my own last massage of the trip. When I was done and went back to the room to pack, she was in tears and was so ready to be back home. I tried consoling her as best as I could, and we both left shortly after with the driver. I was dropped off at the airport to check in for my flight. My phone had died on the drive there, so I finally was able to charge it once I got to my gate. When I turned it on I had a text from Sam saying that once I had been dropped off, the driver refused to bring her to the hotel she was to stay at in Miami because it was not "in the arranged plan" he had made with MrGreat. Since Tony had so unexpectedly made Sam leave that day, there was nothing she could do about it and it had not been discussed with the driver. She wrote that she ended up having to get a cab to another hotel and had to spend her own money to pay for everything. I felt so damn bad, and was helpless at that point to do anything for her. When I landed I e-mailed Sam telling her to write MrGreat about what all had happened. She was hesitant since she didn't to upset MrGreat over a situation that he wasn't a part of, but I convinced her to do it because MrGreat had a right to know what an ass hole Tony ended up being.
Once I was home, I wrote MrGreat and thanked him for a wonderful time and trip and for being so generous. When he wrote back, he said he enjoyed his time as well. HOWEVER... Tony's experience did not turn out as expected. Because of this, he said Tony was deterred from pursuing anything with the sugar lifestyle, and that meant that MrGreat was not going to either. Such bull shit! I wrote him back saying I understood, but at the same time thought it was silly that he was basing his decision off of another person and that I wish he had been more clear about how much of his decision to be an SD was connected to someone else, that being Tony. We parted on good terms, but I felt very frustrated. It was such an amazing trip, and I was really getting my hopes up that I had found a long term SD finally. Unfortunately that’s not the case, and now I am back on the prowl. Ay yi yi, it's never ending!
I am meeting up with MrSexy again in a week. He is going to stay in my city for 2 nights, so hopefully I will be getting a little extra cash out of that. Overall, I still feel very blessed for everything else I have going on in my real life… apart from the sugar life. Finding that ideal SD will just be the cherry on my cake! x3
Monday, November 21, 2011
"O" FACE
My o-face got A LOT of practice this past weekend with MrSexy. We had our second meet in a city by the beach that was a few hours distance from both of us. This is the first time I ever traveled in a car to go meet with an SD. I almost feel like I can't call MrSexy an "SD" for the fact we met on AshleyMadison, and not a website specifically catered to sugar relationships. Though he is very affluent, he is not familiar with the concept of an arrangement, nor have we ever really discussed it. I'm more so his mistress he is reliving his lost youth with. For the sake of simplicity though, I will just refer to him as an SD.
I arrived Friday evening at the hotel MrSexy booked for us. It was really pretty, and quite peaceful considering it is the off-season right now for beach resorts. We ate dinner at the restaurant connected to the hotel, and it was sooo good! For appetizers we got smoked fish dip and shrimp, and for entrees we both ordered the whole red snapper (yep, with the head on), along with steamed kale leaves and a gruyere cheese popover, yum! :p Oh, and cannot forget the bottle of white wine for me, myself, and I, since MrSexy isn't a big drinker.
Right away during dinner I could tell I was going to be struggling again to maintain fluid conversation with MrSexy. He's so good looking, but can be oh-so boring sometimes! He just has not had enough life experiences to talk about I feel. He married so young and started working right away, so he has never traveled outside of the U.S. (not even a cruise!). He also never went to college, so there is a lack of commonality in that area to really converse about.
I did my best though to keep the convo raft afloat, and was super excited when we headed back to the hotel room. We didn't dadle around at all once getting there, and both of our clothes were off within minutes ;) We passed out early, and then ended up waking up again around 4 in the morning for a second round of bed wrestling. As the Black Eyed Peas would say: "And I just can't get enough!"
On Saturday we woke up early and MrSexy let me lounge in bed while he got us breakfast. He really is such a gentleman, and super sweet and kind to me. The French toast he brought back for me was AH-MAY-ZING! The weather was really overcast, so we opted to drive around to see what sites were around to entertain us. I was hoping to do a little shopping, but I didnt see any stores worth making him stop at. We ended up going to a fun museum about 30 minutes from our hotel, which took up a good amount of the day. After, we went back to the hotel for a late lunch then got our spa treatments MrSexy had reserved for us earlier. I got a 75 minute body scrub/massage and a pedicure. Aaah, bliss.
That night we ate at a restaurant MrSexy had found online. The Obamas had actually eaten at it before, so we figured it would be good. And "good" ended up being an understatement, as it was absolute perfection! Everything on the menu was so yum looking. I got prime rib for my main course, and we did crab cakes, SheCrab soup, and tuna for appetizers. MrSexy had a stiff Crown and coke, and got a little buzz from it (while I downed 4 Pomegranate martinis). He then opened up to me a bit, saying how he doesn't know why he has this tough exterior, and that he blames it on the fact he doesn't know how to take off his "boss" face, even when he isn't working. I understood what he was saying, and tried to make it a point that I am the last person he should feel like he needs to keep his guard up with. I'm there with him so we can have fun, and be our secret selves!
We decided to take dessert to-go (cheesecake and vanilla/white chocolate creme brulee!) and gave one another our own desserts in bed ;) I felt like him opening up to me somewhat was a good hump I got over, and it made me feel more confident about our future meets. He did give me some allowance money, but not as much as I was hoping for and expected. Because he is not an SD per se, we never really discussed a stipend to be given to me. I just kind of leave my purse open on the bed, and he sticks some cash in it without any discussion.
He and I are planning on meeting again in December, so I figured I will see how much he gives me then, and will more accurately be able to gauge an average amount I should expect from him. Because I do have a real SD, MrGreat, I cannot have too many complaints. As I mentioned in a previous post, MrSexy is like the (great sex, hot as hell, small extra allowance) cherry on my sugar cake. I should be seeing him again before I see MrGreat. Will post then! x3
I arrived Friday evening at the hotel MrSexy booked for us. It was really pretty, and quite peaceful considering it is the off-season right now for beach resorts. We ate dinner at the restaurant connected to the hotel, and it was sooo good! For appetizers we got smoked fish dip and shrimp, and for entrees we both ordered the whole red snapper (yep, with the head on), along with steamed kale leaves and a gruyere cheese popover, yum! :p Oh, and cannot forget the bottle of white wine for me, myself, and I, since MrSexy isn't a big drinker.
Right away during dinner I could tell I was going to be struggling again to maintain fluid conversation with MrSexy. He's so good looking, but can be oh-so boring sometimes! He just has not had enough life experiences to talk about I feel. He married so young and started working right away, so he has never traveled outside of the U.S. (not even a cruise!). He also never went to college, so there is a lack of commonality in that area to really converse about.
I did my best though to keep the convo raft afloat, and was super excited when we headed back to the hotel room. We didn't dadle around at all once getting there, and both of our clothes were off within minutes ;) We passed out early, and then ended up waking up again around 4 in the morning for a second round of bed wrestling. As the Black Eyed Peas would say: "And I just can't get enough!"
On Saturday we woke up early and MrSexy let me lounge in bed while he got us breakfast. He really is such a gentleman, and super sweet and kind to me. The French toast he brought back for me was AH-MAY-ZING! The weather was really overcast, so we opted to drive around to see what sites were around to entertain us. I was hoping to do a little shopping, but I didnt see any stores worth making him stop at. We ended up going to a fun museum about 30 minutes from our hotel, which took up a good amount of the day. After, we went back to the hotel for a late lunch then got our spa treatments MrSexy had reserved for us earlier. I got a 75 minute body scrub/massage and a pedicure. Aaah, bliss.
That night we ate at a restaurant MrSexy had found online. The Obamas had actually eaten at it before, so we figured it would be good. And "good" ended up being an understatement, as it was absolute perfection! Everything on the menu was so yum looking. I got prime rib for my main course, and we did crab cakes, SheCrab soup, and tuna for appetizers. MrSexy had a stiff Crown and coke, and got a little buzz from it (while I downed 4 Pomegranate martinis). He then opened up to me a bit, saying how he doesn't know why he has this tough exterior, and that he blames it on the fact he doesn't know how to take off his "boss" face, even when he isn't working. I understood what he was saying, and tried to make it a point that I am the last person he should feel like he needs to keep his guard up with. I'm there with him so we can have fun, and be our secret selves!
We decided to take dessert to-go (cheesecake and vanilla/white chocolate creme brulee!) and gave one another our own desserts in bed ;) I felt like him opening up to me somewhat was a good hump I got over, and it made me feel more confident about our future meets. He did give me some allowance money, but not as much as I was hoping for and expected. Because he is not an SD per se, we never really discussed a stipend to be given to me. I just kind of leave my purse open on the bed, and he sticks some cash in it without any discussion.
He and I are planning on meeting again in December, so I figured I will see how much he gives me then, and will more accurately be able to gauge an average amount I should expect from him. Because I do have a real SD, MrGreat, I cannot have too many complaints. As I mentioned in a previous post, MrSexy is like the (great sex, hot as hell, small extra allowance) cherry on my sugar cake. I should be seeing him again before I see MrGreat. Will post then! x3
Monday, October 31, 2011
IT'S RAINING MEN
MrSexy: Met on AM. He is SO. FREAKING. HOTTT! This is the first man that I have been absolutely physically attracted to who I have met for sugar. He is in his mid 30's, tan, muscular, and jaw dropping sexy. He came to my city for 2 nights to meet for the first time. He's married to a much older woman, and says his marriage now lacks the intimacy and sex factor he still craves. He owns his own business, but is very much a southern, low-key (very wealthy) gentleman. Downside of him is he is a bit on the quiet side. I feel like I am doing most of the work when it comes to making conversation, which can get old. The sex is great though! I couldn’t get my dirty mind off of him once he left. He gave me an allowance and took me shopping. We have our next meet planned in 2 weeks in a mutually close location by the beach. He sent me an e-mail saying all the things he has planned out for us. I just can't wait for the hot sex again! ;)
MrGreat: Met on AM. Married as well. Dark eyes and hair, a bit chubby, but great personality and confidence. We met for lunch a few days ago in my city, as he lives only a few hours away. Lunch was great! Good food, and even better conversation. He makes me laugh, and I feel really comfortable around him. I told him how I have wanted to go to Vegas for a really long time, so he may plan something out for the near future. He is willing to give me an allowance, but we have not discussed an actual dollar amount. I am going to let him suggest a figure, and see how generous he really is.
MrRich: Contacted me on SA. He was supposed to come to my city this week for a few nights, so we could test out the chemistry between us. Something came up unexpectedly though, so we are in the process of rescheduling. He is LOADED, and has made it very apparent that he is willing to give me a very hefty allowance for my time. I am afraid though that my schedule is not as flexible as he would like, since it seemed like he wants me to be available at a moment’s notice. I also am weary because he was already asking what I would do if "we fell in love", this and that. Needless to say he is not married. The money potential with him is keeping him on my radar though. I figured I could at least meet him, and possibly get some type of financial help from him before maybe ending things before they really blossom.
I think that MrGreat is the best pot for a long-term, generous, fun SD. MrSexy is so damn fine and gives me an allowance (not as much thus far as I would like though), so I figured I can at least see him once per month for the good sex and extra cash. MrRich I cannot predict much with yet until we actually meet. I will update upon my next meet with one of these men. Until then my sugies, stay sweet x3
MrGreat: Met on AM. Married as well. Dark eyes and hair, a bit chubby, but great personality and confidence. We met for lunch a few days ago in my city, as he lives only a few hours away. Lunch was great! Good food, and even better conversation. He makes me laugh, and I feel really comfortable around him. I told him how I have wanted to go to Vegas for a really long time, so he may plan something out for the near future. He is willing to give me an allowance, but we have not discussed an actual dollar amount. I am going to let him suggest a figure, and see how generous he really is.
MrRich: Contacted me on SA. He was supposed to come to my city this week for a few nights, so we could test out the chemistry between us. Something came up unexpectedly though, so we are in the process of rescheduling. He is LOADED, and has made it very apparent that he is willing to give me a very hefty allowance for my time. I am afraid though that my schedule is not as flexible as he would like, since it seemed like he wants me to be available at a moment’s notice. I also am weary because he was already asking what I would do if "we fell in love", this and that. Needless to say he is not married. The money potential with him is keeping him on my radar though. I figured I could at least meet him, and possibly get some type of financial help from him before maybe ending things before they really blossom.
I think that MrGreat is the best pot for a long-term, generous, fun SD. MrSexy is so damn fine and gives me an allowance (not as much thus far as I would like though), so I figured I can at least see him once per month for the good sex and extra cash. MrRich I cannot predict much with yet until we actually meet. I will update upon my next meet with one of these men. Until then my sugies, stay sweet x3
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