I apologize in advance for the straight to the point style of this post. Have not really been in a blogging mood lately, but know I need to post because a lot has changed since my last one. I am just going to set this up in a paragraph-per-guy way.
Mr.Opps: Met him off of AM, and met for lunch. He is WAY too old for me, and I knew right away I would not take him on as my SD. He is an alum of my university, and has a ton of connects in my city though. Told him I am not interested in pursuing an arrangement, but am interested in working at the parties he hosts and getting paid for it. He invited myself and my best friend to lunch the other day after I mentioned the financial hardships she was going through. I told her he is a "mentor" of mine I met through my major, so she is unaware still of my sugar life. He is now helping her out financially by passing it off as a "scholarship". We met MrOpps friend who knows VERY notable people in my city, and we are having dinner with one of them next week.
Mr.RealEstate: Divorced. Flew in to meet him last weekend. He is from a city in the same state of mine, so it was a very short flight and not that big of a deal flying to meet him considering we had never priorly met in person. The meet went well, but he did not offer enough of an allowance for me to want to settle with him. He is depositing money in my account every week at this time, but I am unsure still if I want to see him again. Figured I will meet with him 1 more time, let him put another grand or 2 in my account, then call it quits. He did inspire an interest in real estate for me though, since that is how he made his fortune. Very nice guy though, and taught me how to drive stick in his Viper. So much fun!
Mr. Travel: Flew into my city a few nights ago to meet, and from a city in the same state as me too. Wants a companion for business and pleasure trips. Divorced, owner of his business, attractive, and we get along really well. Both of us see life through the same lens, and just want to have fun in living it. He was quite flakey with his communication prior to us meeting, and mentioned he is a very last minute person due to his overtly busy schedule. This could be a bit annoyng to me since I very much like to plan things in advance, and have a set agenda. We both decided we want to move forward, BUT I have not had the allowance discussion with him yet. Think we may be going to Vegas now next weekend, and it will be my first time going!!! Really hope it works out, and figured we will have our needed dicu$$ion then... and if I decide he's not offering enough, then at least I finally got to go to Vegas, haha.
Mr.Sexy: Done with him. Have mentioned him in past posts. He is hot as hellll, but has cancelled planned meets 2 months in a row. When he e-mailed me saying he could not make it again this past month, I didn't even bother responding. If he comes out of the woodworks randomly in the future, and I need an extra 1000bucks, maybe I'll respond. At this point though I am moving on to men I have more of a mental connection to who are more familiar with the sugar lifestyle.
Was also just texted my a guy from Miami who I apparently spoke to a few months back. Had him send me his profile on SA, and his net worth is "over $1million", so that's promising at least (though I am aware that stated fact could be complete bull shit). Get a good vibe from him though, so going to pursue things. Basically basing things off of attraction level (physically and convo wise) and who wants to meet the least amount of times per month for the most allowance. Ready to get something stable going again, and I see it happening quite soon x3
Friday, January 27, 2012
Sunday, January 8, 2012
CONTINUANCE FROM LAST POST
Sam knocked on my door a few minutes later. She helped me finish my yummy flourless chocolate cake dessert, and began telling me about how her and Tony were meshing with one another. Things hadn't gotten much better since seeing her earlier in the afternoon, when finding out Tony no longer wanted to stay at the resort until the originally planned Tuesday. It was to get even worse too, unbeknownst to us at that moment in time.
I really felt bad that she wasn't having nearly as enjoyable of a time as me, so I opted that we order a bottle of champagne to make a toast to us lady sugars and cheer her up. I decided to splurge a bit (on MrGreat’s account of course) and ordered a bottle of Dom Perignon that was over $500. They ended up accidently bringing us a cheaper $300 bottle at first. We didn't take notice, so we popped it open and began drinking. I was feeling a bit buzzed already, considering I had already downed a whole bottle of champagne myself prior to Sam's arrival. All of a sudden we hear a knock at the door, and it's room service holding the correct bottle of champagne! So we ended up getting a nice 2 for 1 deal ;)
We decided to go check out the resort bar downstairs, but there wasn't much happening with it being off-season and really not a lot of young people staying there. After drunkenly stumbling back to my room and saying goodnight to Sam, I enjoyed a nice night's sleep alone.
In the morning I awoke to a text from Sam. She had come across messages between Tony and MrGreat after going through Tony's phone when he was gone at the gym. Apparently there were mean things Tony called Sam that pertained to her weight, and made it known that he was looking forward to returning back home to his family. I told her to come to my room to talk about it, and convinced her to book the most expensive spa package to fit in some R&R to help ease her frustrations over Tony. I ordered breakfast room service, and ordered a bath soak treatment from the spa, where they come to your room and draw you a bath with body nourishing bath salts. It was a wonderful way to begin my last day at the resort, but I still felt bad about how Sam's experience was turning out.
Later in the day I got a text from Sam saying that Tony had asked/told her to leave later that day (Saturday) with me now, instead of Sunday. MrGreat had arranged for a driver to bring me from the hotel back to the airport for later on in the afternoon. She was quite upset over it, and was really confused as to what went so wrong with him. She truly did do everything to please Tony, and he was not reciprocating positively at all. Also, he only gave her $300 towards getting a hotel for 2 nights since she couldn’t find a flight out until Monday, and also did not reimburse her for the fee she was charged to change her flight. I couldn't think of much to say because I was just as taken aback and surprised at how he was acting too! I had spoke to him a bit earlier in the day when I ran into him at the bar, and he seemed very calm and relaxed and we didn't really discuss anything about the situation occurring with him and Sam.
Sam packed all of her things while Tony was gone getting a massage later, and stayed in my room while I got my own last massage of the trip. When I was done and went back to the room to pack, she was in tears and was so ready to be back home. I tried consoling her as best as I could, and we both left shortly after with the driver. I was dropped off at the airport to check in for my flight. My phone had died on the drive there, so I finally was able to charge it once I got to my gate. When I turned it on I had a text from Sam saying that once I had been dropped off, the driver refused to bring her to the hotel she was to stay at in Miami because it was not "in the arranged plan" he had made with MrGreat. Since Tony had so unexpectedly made Sam leave that day, there was nothing she could do about it and it had not been discussed with the driver. She wrote that she ended up having to get a cab to another hotel and had to spend her own money to pay for everything. I felt so damn bad, and was helpless at that point to do anything for her. When I landed I e-mailed Sam telling her to write MrGreat about what all had happened. She was hesitant since she didn't to upset MrGreat over a situation that he wasn't a part of, but I convinced her to do it because MrGreat had a right to know what an ass hole Tony ended up being.
Once I was home, I wrote MrGreat and thanked him for a wonderful time and trip and for being so generous. When he wrote back, he said he enjoyed his time as well. HOWEVER... Tony's experience did not turn out as expected. Because of this, he said Tony was deterred from pursuing anything with the sugar lifestyle, and that meant that MrGreat was not going to either. Such bull shit! I wrote him back saying I understood, but at the same time thought it was silly that he was basing his decision off of another person and that I wish he had been more clear about how much of his decision to be an SD was connected to someone else, that being Tony. We parted on good terms, but I felt very frustrated. It was such an amazing trip, and I was really getting my hopes up that I had found a long term SD finally. Unfortunately that’s not the case, and now I am back on the prowl. Ay yi yi, it's never ending!
I am meeting up with MrSexy again in a week. He is going to stay in my city for 2 nights, so hopefully I will be getting a little extra cash out of that. Overall, I still feel very blessed for everything else I have going on in my real life… apart from the sugar life. Finding that ideal SD will just be the cherry on my cake! x3
I really felt bad that she wasn't having nearly as enjoyable of a time as me, so I opted that we order a bottle of champagne to make a toast to us lady sugars and cheer her up. I decided to splurge a bit (on MrGreat’s account of course) and ordered a bottle of Dom Perignon that was over $500. They ended up accidently bringing us a cheaper $300 bottle at first. We didn't take notice, so we popped it open and began drinking. I was feeling a bit buzzed already, considering I had already downed a whole bottle of champagne myself prior to Sam's arrival. All of a sudden we hear a knock at the door, and it's room service holding the correct bottle of champagne! So we ended up getting a nice 2 for 1 deal ;)
We decided to go check out the resort bar downstairs, but there wasn't much happening with it being off-season and really not a lot of young people staying there. After drunkenly stumbling back to my room and saying goodnight to Sam, I enjoyed a nice night's sleep alone.
In the morning I awoke to a text from Sam. She had come across messages between Tony and MrGreat after going through Tony's phone when he was gone at the gym. Apparently there were mean things Tony called Sam that pertained to her weight, and made it known that he was looking forward to returning back home to his family. I told her to come to my room to talk about it, and convinced her to book the most expensive spa package to fit in some R&R to help ease her frustrations over Tony. I ordered breakfast room service, and ordered a bath soak treatment from the spa, where they come to your room and draw you a bath with body nourishing bath salts. It was a wonderful way to begin my last day at the resort, but I still felt bad about how Sam's experience was turning out.
Later in the day I got a text from Sam saying that Tony had asked/told her to leave later that day (Saturday) with me now, instead of Sunday. MrGreat had arranged for a driver to bring me from the hotel back to the airport for later on in the afternoon. She was quite upset over it, and was really confused as to what went so wrong with him. She truly did do everything to please Tony, and he was not reciprocating positively at all. Also, he only gave her $300 towards getting a hotel for 2 nights since she couldn’t find a flight out until Monday, and also did not reimburse her for the fee she was charged to change her flight. I couldn't think of much to say because I was just as taken aback and surprised at how he was acting too! I had spoke to him a bit earlier in the day when I ran into him at the bar, and he seemed very calm and relaxed and we didn't really discuss anything about the situation occurring with him and Sam.
Sam packed all of her things while Tony was gone getting a massage later, and stayed in my room while I got my own last massage of the trip. When I was done and went back to the room to pack, she was in tears and was so ready to be back home. I tried consoling her as best as I could, and we both left shortly after with the driver. I was dropped off at the airport to check in for my flight. My phone had died on the drive there, so I finally was able to charge it once I got to my gate. When I turned it on I had a text from Sam saying that once I had been dropped off, the driver refused to bring her to the hotel she was to stay at in Miami because it was not "in the arranged plan" he had made with MrGreat. Since Tony had so unexpectedly made Sam leave that day, there was nothing she could do about it and it had not been discussed with the driver. She wrote that she ended up having to get a cab to another hotel and had to spend her own money to pay for everything. I felt so damn bad, and was helpless at that point to do anything for her. When I landed I e-mailed Sam telling her to write MrGreat about what all had happened. She was hesitant since she didn't to upset MrGreat over a situation that he wasn't a part of, but I convinced her to do it because MrGreat had a right to know what an ass hole Tony ended up being.
Once I was home, I wrote MrGreat and thanked him for a wonderful time and trip and for being so generous. When he wrote back, he said he enjoyed his time as well. HOWEVER... Tony's experience did not turn out as expected. Because of this, he said Tony was deterred from pursuing anything with the sugar lifestyle, and that meant that MrGreat was not going to either. Such bull shit! I wrote him back saying I understood, but at the same time thought it was silly that he was basing his decision off of another person and that I wish he had been more clear about how much of his decision to be an SD was connected to someone else, that being Tony. We parted on good terms, but I felt very frustrated. It was such an amazing trip, and I was really getting my hopes up that I had found a long term SD finally. Unfortunately that’s not the case, and now I am back on the prowl. Ay yi yi, it's never ending!
I am meeting up with MrSexy again in a week. He is going to stay in my city for 2 nights, so hopefully I will be getting a little extra cash out of that. Overall, I still feel very blessed for everything else I have going on in my real life… apart from the sugar life. Finding that ideal SD will just be the cherry on my cake! x3
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