i have officially completed my first date with a SD, Mr.Rocker. what was suppose to be just a lunch date turned into a lunch AND eventually dinner date lasting over 7 hours haha. since it was lunch i tried to stay casual and cute wearing tight fitting, light-blue jeans tucked into knee-high black boots, paired with a tight black cami with a long-sleeved, cover-up, a black Guess belt with a diamond studded "G" in the front, a long accessorized silver necklace, a cream colored, leather jacket, and my hair down and straight (with some extra extensions in to give it volume ;) -im addicted lol). it turned out really cute actually bc he was wearing that rocker-type of outfit (dark Affliction shirt, leather wrist-wrap, faded jeans) so we complimented eachother really well i thought.
i tried so hard to be early to make a good first impression but ended up being 5min late (wtf is with us girls and being late!? lol). it was okay tho bc he was just getting out of his car when i pulled in. lunch conversation mostly consisted of him talking about the bitchy ex gf's he had met through the site and how he was ready for a nice, real, good girl. i was basically listening and taking mental notes of what were his turn-on's and off's just so i could be that much more attractive to him.
we went to his house after since i felt comfortable enough by the end of lunch. i followed him in his black mercedes telling myself to look up the price of it when i got home lol (by the way it starts at $85,000!!).. and omg ladies -his house was BEAUTIFUL. it was waterfront with tons of big, open windows to see out and lots of funky art -very modern and fresh and classy.
he offered me a beer which i took (only drank 1 though!). After a house tour we went to this spa resort by his home -a place that a lot of familiar celebs have gone to - with the twist being its clothing optional! lmao. so i saw lots of (old! ew) dick... just not his i swear haha. we only walked around and laid out by the pool in our clothes and just talked. we got dinner at a casual mom and pop's place and when i left finally left at 7ish we hugged and he told me he wanted to get together again mon or tues when im back in town (i told him im going to school to visit friends before my new job starts this weekend, but really yall know im going to see Mr.Mentor).
so the date was definitely a success. my only strike on him was that he did not offer to give me gas money when i drove quite a distance to come see him... im going to mention it to him when we hang out again though and just say i cant afford to be driving so far to see him when i dont have lots of cash to spare. also i felt weird asking him for an allowance bc it just felt well -AWKWARD...mostly due to the fact i was attracted to him in all ways and almost felt rude asking... he even brought it up first asking me "what do u want from this?" and i just fumbled over my words and was saying i wanted a stable, mature man to take care of me? i dont even remember really -i just know i didnt talk cold, hard money. how do u ladies deal with this dilemma when u truly like a SD? -maybe i'll feel comfortable over time? Overall though I was very pleased with the day.
tomorrow morning i leave to go meet Mr.Mentor and will be staying until sunday night. wish me luck ladies! ps- i feel VERY comfortable flying to meet this guy. i have ALL his info, and he even gave me approval to give my best friend his phone # (shes the only one who knows about this trip) in case she cant get in touch with me. thought that was kinda sweet. x3
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I'm happy your first date was such a success. For the allowance issue, I would suggest emailing him today and tomorrow saying that you had a wonderful time and ask if he wants to continue to see you. If he wants to continue, tell him you like to be spoiled and ask him that you would like a shopping allowance for the month. He'll probably will ask you a figure. Then go on from there...
ReplyDeleteIf you don't know how much to ask for an allowance I would add up all of your expenses and double that number. An SB deserves to be taken care of with extra spending money on the side. If need be you can write down these numbers for him(and exaggerate them). Men are very visual, it might help him to see it all out on paper and, if he is a good SD, he will have no problem taking care of the needs of his Princess.
ReplyDeleteNever feel rude asking an SD for cash. Thats the whole point. Us babies don't have a lot of money and they know it. If he were a date for a bf then yes, it may be rude that you didn't come prepared. But make sure you discuss the allowance soon, or else he'll be getting free game and when you bring it up will feel weird about it.
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Oh there is nothing like that first sugar date! *sigh* I have found myself in the same predicament with SDs I'm really attracted to... Careful! Even if you like him you have to remember what your objectives are. Good luck with Mr. Mentor!
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